Zachary Philip Haney
Obituary
Zachary Philip Haney, 32, easy to notice, hard to forget: tall and handsome, Zach had a contagious smile and genuine charm. He was intelligent, adventurous, creative. He believed in fairness, wouldn’t tolerate cruelty. While we may never know the reasons, Zach tragically, inexplicably ended his life July 28. We have a empty space that can’t be described, silence… to ponder the mystery of life and afterlife.
Zach was born and raised in Tulsa. He graduated from Edison Preparatory and attended Drury University. He obtained a welding certificate at Tulsa Welding School and enjoyed a challenging career as a welder with Alfa Laval, a world leader in technology innovation in heat transfer and fluids handing, in Broken Arrow.
Zach was preceded in death by his mother, Christine Love. He is survived by his father, Phil Haney (Myra Sellers), sister, Diane Haney, and an extended family including aunts, uncles and cousins. Zach cherished his friendships with those who shared his values and passions. He was fiercely loyal to friends and family.
As soon as he could afford it, Zach bought his dream car, a Dodge Challenger. He was thrilled to drive around and show his new wheels to family, friends, everyone. His main hobby was video gaming, including playing X-Box, PlayStation 4 and other devices, and staying current with their software updates. Zach was a movie buff, eager for the latest sci-fi blockbuster releases. In high school he worked at a theater; unlimited movie viewing a perk of immeasurable value!
Zach wasn’t religious or political. However, he had firm beliefs about government and the importance of freedom and would share them without being asked. He was a sensitive, easygoing young man who was proud of his independent life. In so many ways he was a perfect son.
Memorial Service Sunday August 18, 4:30, All Souls Unitarian Church, reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.
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Tributes & Memories
It's just not the same without you. I still think about you daily. Merry Christmas. We love you, and miss you so very much. Until we meet again brother I keep you in my heart! Your friend -Hunter-
Hunter Kuske
I love you Zach and miss you every day
Hunter kuske
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Janet Young
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Tom Love III
Dear Phil and family, My heart goes out to you with respect to Zachary's passing. I am oh so very sorry for your tremendous loss. I did not know Zachary; I just saw his death notice and was so saddened to learn that such a young man chose to end his life and I wanted to reach out to his family and tell you that you are in my thoughts. Very truly yours, Susan Farthingn
Susan Farthing
Zak was the son I never had. I loved him and was his friend sense he was a child. I will never forget him and will always keep him in my prays. I don't really understand why a good man like Zak was taken so young in life before he found love and had his own family.
Timothy profitt
I’m so very sorry for this tremendous loss. I just can’t imagine. You and your family have my prayers.
Kara Vaughan Marks
My heart goes out to you, Phil, and your family for this unimaginable loss and pain. Please accept my condolences. Don't hesitate to call any time in the future. May you somehow find comfort in this profound heartbreak. Love, Sherry
Sherry Shanor Killam
Phil and family, Please accept our deepest condolences. We cannot imagine your pain. We remember you talking so fondly of both of your children. Our hearts are with you, always in prayer. Carolyn and Ted Beaumont
Carolyn and Ted Beaumont
I cannot begin to feel the loss that you all are feeling. I didnt know Zach very well but I did have the pleasure of working with him at Alfa Laval. Zach was a talented welder, very intelligent, friendly, and a hard worker. I already miss his presence at work. His parting affected several of us deeply. I am and have been sending his family and friends prayers along with my deepest condolences. I am so sorry for the loss of this young man.
David Johnson
So sorry for your loss. I remember Zach and my Boys (Mordhorst) in scouts at school. He was very sweet and they had a great time playing in the neighborhood
Suzanne wills
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Sandra Brownlee
What words can possibly be said to express my shock and sadness, or to comfort you, Myra and your daughter? I wish I knew. I can only tell you how sorry I am that this happened, and that I'm always here for you if you need a tight hug or someone to talk to. His obituary was remarkable, and extremely well written.
Sandra Brownlee
Dear Phil & Family, We weep with you in your loss. Our prayers are with you and we love you. The Faith Center, Sunrise, FL Family. Delva Roberts Admin Asst The Faith Center
Delva Roberts
Phil and Myra...Words escape me. I can’t think of a harder situation for a parent to face. Phil you’ve been on my mind all day. You have many friends out here that are with you in your heart. Call 513-2849 if I can do anything to help you. My sincere sympathies. Judy (Gilliland)Phillips
Judy Gilliland Phillips
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Shelby
I am so sorry that Zach is gone from us. I was his English teacher at Edison. He was a great student with a tremendous sense of humor. I will remember him, as I am sure will anybody who knew him.
Mark MacDonald
Oh, Phil. I am so sorry. Words fail. May you find peace and comfort. Sending our love. Nancy
Nancy Bolzle
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Zuriel Taylor
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Kylie Kirk
Sending love and healing thoughts your way.
Catherine Hall
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Aubrey Barnes
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Marta
Phil and Myra. I'm so sorry to hear of Zach's passing. I can't imagine the shock and grief you are experiencing. Dona and I will continue to be praying for you.
Mark Davidson
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Myra Sellers
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Chris Lewis
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Phil Haney
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Diane
You were one a hell of dude, Zach. You being gone is really hitting me hard. You and I had some good convos and shared some good laughs. You always kept me in the loop at work and we kept watch for each other when we'd vape in my booth haha. We stayed in touch even after we left our job together and I wish I could've helped you out more. We almost got to work together again. Sorry to see you go brother. Gonna miss you man.
Jeremy Zapata
Zach always without a doubt gave me a hug in the hallways at Edison, good day or bad day. He was always, hey, how are you doing? Always taller than me since I’m 4”11. We chatted throughout the years. I lost touch a bit after high school but I’d see him around here and there. He always hugged me. I’m gunna miss that guy.
Marta Uekermann
Phil, words cannot express my sincere condolences to you and your family. I can only imagine what you are going through. My prayers are with you that God grants you the strength to get through this and give you the peace that surpasses all understanding. Love your friend and colleague Marianne
Marianne Salazar
Zach had a big heart & was a loyal friend of 23 years. I met Zach in 2nd grade at Grimes elementary, he would spend weekend's at my house where we would play video games, staying up for sometimes 72 hours straight & prank each other for falling asleep first. As we grew older into ages 11 through 15 we became mallrats & Zach was able to make friends so easy as he had the biggest smile that would charm anybody and made everyone laugh. Zach was a no bs, honest & loving guy who i will forever miss. I will never have another friend like you Zach & I'm so sorry for your pain. I know you were close to your mom and she passed only a little over a year ago. I know you are now reunited with her in heaven. Thank you for being there for me all of these 23 years. I will see you again one day. Love you so much man...
Justin Johnson