Wanda Lemons

Wanda Lemons

Obituary

Wanda Lemons lived her young life in a three-room house with her parents, Doc and Reatha Bell (Grayson) Laman and 9 siblings in rural Southeast Oklahoma. From her earliest years she dedicated herself to learning all she could to make herself and everyone around her better. She attended a one-room school house and studied at home by light from the fireplace or kerosene lamp. Wishard was amazed to realize that Wanda's life had more in common with the pioneer life of his father than with his own life in the city of Muskogee.

After high school Wanda studied business and worked as secretary to a state legislator, to Gov. Raymond Gary, and then to Dr. Stowe (later Bishop Stowe) at St. Luke's Methodist Church in Oklahoma City. Wanda teased that one way to improve herself was to leave the Baptist Church and become a Methodist. A young, recently widowed minister came to the office to see Bishop Stowe and left having eyes only for Wanda. Initially reluctant to pursue a relationship with a preacher with three children, Wanda soon realized that unlike other suitors, this man "got better and better instead of worse and worse" and they were soon married. Wanda became both Mrs. Wishard Lemons and mother to three young boysClark, Don and Gary-- all in the same day. Two children, Mark and Laurie, completed the Lemons' family in time.

Wanda returned to school and became an English and business teacher with a long and distinguished career in Tulsa Public Schools and Oral Roberts University.

Wanda's life was defined by passion for her Lord, her husband and family, her church, students and many friends. She and Wishard were avid runners and participated in almost every run in Tulsa for many years, including the Wish Lemons Run. Wanda invested all of her endless energy and talents into helping people work up from wherever they were to where they dreamed they could be. In later years, her passion became her wonderful grandchildren. Always a teacher, devoted to improvement, her very last words to the family explained the correct usage of "lie" and "lay." We love you, Wanda.

She is survived by her husband of 54 years, Wishard; sons and daughters-in-law, Clark Lemons of Atlanta, GA, Don and Allison Lemons of Wichita, KS, Gary and Lillian Lemons of Scottsdale, AZ, Mark and Jo Lemons of Corpus Christi, TX; daughter and son-in-law, Laurie and Jack Greiner of Vinita, OK; grandchildren, Andres Lemons and his wife, Mara Aceves, John Paul Lemons, Miguel Lemons, Nathan Lemons and his wife, Marta, Micah Lemons, Jacob and Joel Lemons, Jamie and David Davila, Kayla Jean and Benjamin Greiner; a great grandson, Abel Lemons.

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Funeral Home Owner

Wanda was such a friendly & helpful lady. Sorry to hear she passed.

Terrie Campbell

I just read the obituary on Wanda. Mother will be so sad to hear of her passing. Even from so long ago, as a child, I remember her to be such a wonderful person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bonnie (Boris) Hundley

Wanda and Wishard have been second grandparents to me. I loved Wanda's spirit and passion. I was touched by how devoted she was to Wishard. I enjoyed her great sense of humor. I admired how she was up for any challenge or adventure. When I had a health crisis a few years ago, Wanda sent me the most lovely hand-written cards to let me know that she and Wishard were praying for me. She was a light and I will miss her. My condolences to her family and friends - I am very sorry for your loss.

Martha Neibling

I attended Draughon School of Business in the very early 70s. Mrs. Lemons was one of my instructors, and she made such an impression on me. I have thought fondly of her over the years and give her much credit for my successful secretarial/administrative career. She was always so upbeat and positive.

SHERRY WOOD TYLER

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