Victor Lycurgus Robards, Jr. M.D.

Anita, We have just learned about Vic's home going. I had tried to call a few days ago to share some good news and also to tell him that I had been asked to make a presentation on five of the BMDF founding heroes. The number I called was from a BMDF directory of former presidents. I was told by the operator that the number was no longer in service. In addition I wanted to tell the two of you that I have remarried. I lost Jo three years ago and through God's providence, I reconnected with Grace Atchley. She lost LeRoy seven years ago and continued to work until just before Christmas when she retired. We were married on January 2. We are so excited that God has brought us together. Since we could not reach you by phone we went online to find another phone number and found Vic's obituary. Obviously we were shocked. We really wanted to reconnect with you and get a catch-up visit. Could we possibly visit by phone? If so what is a contact number? In the meantime, please know that our deepest love and heartfelt sympathy reaches out to you and your family. Jim and Grace Williams Jim cell 817-694-8553 Grace cell 901-351-3239

He was a true inspiration to the field of organ donation. His research will live on to inspire future generations in the field of medicine.

Dear Anita and family, Our Tanglewood family has lost a great spirit from our midst. Although I've not been able to stay extended times through the years, I have always enjoyed my chats with Vic, and remember how thoughtful he was to make everyone feel welcomed and wanted when we would "party" at your beautiful home. We are all celebrating our time with this very special man and I want to send my condolences to you and your family. Very truly yours, Carol

Anita and family, We are sorry to hear of Vic's passing. He was a great man of God, humble, loved Jesus and his family. May God comfort you during this time of separation. It's Friday, but Sunday's coming!

Rodney, Anita and family, please accept my sincere condolences. I would have liked to have known Dr. Robards. As a fellow Rotarian and Veterinarian client of Rodney's, please let me know if there is anything I can do for you and your family. Lee and I plan to donate to St. Jude's on Dr. Robard's behalf. My prayers of comfort and peace are being said daily. Warm regards, Jane Carlson

Dear Mrs. Robards, I just learned today that Dr. Robards had passed away. I am so very sorry to hear this. He was a fine man, and a wonderful doctor, and very special to my father, Manny Lubin. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Fondly, Belinda

Anita, the loss of Vic will leave gaps in many places. I add my prayers to those of other friends for you and your family for the peace that only God can provide. Don and I so very much enjoyed our visit with you two at Westcliffe in Colorado. And, of course, I firmly believe Don's life was extended because of the excellent care received from Dr. Forrest in Vic's office. I lost Don June, 2010; but he lived 16 years after stage 4 diagnosis. Vic's life touched so many people in Tulsa, Colorado, and many other places. I am so grateful that his life touched Don's and mine, too. I have thought many times of your lovely house in CO and of the precious paintings of rabbits on the little truck. I have enjoyed these wonderful memories many times since that summer! As a widow of almost 6 years, I want to encourage you to thank God for Vic and for so many memories you and he made together. I never wanted to be alone again, and I am certain you felt the same. If you would like to visit when you are in Tulsa sometime, please feel free to call me on my cell at 918-760-3979. I will be glad to meet you, even though I have moved to the Okmulgee Baptist Village. Tulsa is only 40 to 50 minutes away. I drive back and forth two or three times a week. I continue to pray for comfort and peace in this very sad time for you and your family. Sincerely, Wanda

Dear Anita: I am thinking and praying for you and your family. Sadie

It is always a treat to see both of you at Tanglewood. There were often warm abundant smiles during those encounters and Vic often shared a story or two about you or the kids/grandkids and my Grandparents Spec and Merle. I loved hearing them and was so thankful he took the time to share. Every time he spoke about my grandparents I would be flooded with fond memories of long ago. The last few times I was at the Reynolds cabin I stopped by but never caught you all there. I can't express how sorry I am to hear this news Anita. My heart is with you, Brad Thomas

Doc Robards will leave a large whole in the King Family. My grandparents Essie and King adopted Vic and Anita into our family many, many years ago in Tulsa. My parents, Skip and Betty became friends with Vic and Anita and my brothers Vic and Gary with Rodney and myself with Laura. We all spent many fabulous summers together in Tanglewood Acres growing up. Anita ran the Arts and Crafts classes for 'Tanglewood Summer Camp'. Vic and Anita then years later adopted my brother Gary and his wife Kim when they married and moved to Tulsa some years ago. It is with sadness that we say goodbye to Doc Robards and we wish peace to Anita, Rodney, Laura and the rest of the family.

Rodney, Laura and Mrs. Robards, So very sorry for your loss. Many great memories both at Eastwood and at your home. Thinking of you all. DeeAnn Munn Long Tommy & Becky Munn

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I worked with Dr. Robards in surgery for many years. He was a great surgeon and a real gentleman. I had a lot of respect for him. I know he will be greatly missed. My condolences to his family.

Dear Anita, Deepest sadness is in our hearts at hearing of Vic's passing. Time and distance have kept us all apart the last few years; but, nothing can dim the love and kindness that you both gave to us so many times in our lives. Thanks for the memories of many medical mission trips together and lots of BMDF meetings. Vic's guidance and wisdom have meant so much. Over and over again, his presence and confidence in us made all the difference. Your sadness must be overwhelming right now. Please know that we share it in the degree that we can. Thank God that He has given us the hope that we will all be together again someday! Love, Fred and Lavada

Anita, Bert and I are sorry to hear of Vic's death. His knowledge and skill are well known as was his kindness. We so pleased to be among the many who knew you both.

Dear, Anita, Rodney, Laura & all the Family I can't even put in words the extreme saddest I felt when I hear of the unexpected passing of Dr. Robards. He was like a father to me. I owe him a lot for where I am today as leader in Healthcare, but more importantly the person I am. He always encouraged me and served as my mentor for the 16 Years and beyond I worked at Urologic Specialists, (Formally Known as "Tulsa Urologic Clinic"). While not know to me at the time it was the start of a 32 year career in Health Care. Beginning as a File Clerk in March 1983 and ended the last 9 years as the Administrator. As a file clerk, I use accuse him of staying up at nights thinking of crazy things for me to do. Such as, go the house and feed Rodney's goat, one time the goat got out and I chased it all over the neighborhood:) had be pick hunting rifles I had to come up the elevator with. I always admired him for his devotion to his family and his work we had a many long talks. Leaving the USO was the hardest thing I ever did in my life. I recall like it was yesterday going his house to share I was leaving. While I have been gone in person since April 1999 and have spent the last 13 years in Green Bay, Wisconsin, I left a great deal of my heart at the clinic. It was like working for family; we always celebrated together and helped each other in times of sorrow. Anita, I still have the wonderful gifts you created proudly displayed in my home (My favorites the Bunny Casserole Dish & the Painted Glass) you are such a gifted artist. Rodney & Laura I have such fond memories of you both shared by your father and ones I was able to enjoy in person. Laura, I will never forget the cake at your wedding and how your father lite up when talking about you. Rodney, the care you provided to a number of our pets and again how every proud your father was of you. I loved seeing the change in him as he became a grandfather. My heart and special prays goes out to the entire family. These few memories will always hold a special place in my heart. So he will never be gone. I will honor him with a Donate to St Jude's Children's Research Hospital and by always doing the best I can in everything I do. I send all my love and God Bless you always and help you through this very difficult time. I so wish I could be there in person, but do know I am there in spirit, Love Always Rosalyn

Photo taken December 17th, 2015 at 2300 Riverside Christmas party.

Vic was one of the kindest men we've ever met! we enjoyed visiting with him as he "walked by Faith" passed our cabin. we are praying for your family. we love you. I'm so sorry you are hurting but so glad we are assured he is in heaven.

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Lit a candle in memory of Victor Lycurgus Robards, Jr. M.D.

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We want you to know that Vic is one of the kindest and faith-filled men we have ever known. A favorite thing about summers in Tanglewood is our opportunity to visit with Vic and Anita, whose hospitality and thoughtfulness always makes us feel like family. He will be so dearly missed. We are praying for your family during this time. Love, Torin, Marissa, Cole, and Canaan

Rodney, so, very, very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all the family.

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Rodney, Julie & family, My heart is heavy to hear of your dad's passing. He was a kind, sweet spirit and his legacy lives on through the wonderful family he left behind. You are in my prayers.

We are deeply saddened by the loss of our good friend, Vic. He was such a caring and gracious person - a good example of Christian faith. He will be sorely missed. Heartfelt condolences to Anita and the family.

To Vic's Family: Charlotte and I are praying for you in these days of sorrow over the death of Vic. What a shock it was to hear of his passing. Vic was a real gentle man, wise and caring, and had a servant's heart. He was so kind and generous. He left big marks on our church and to us was a real example of Christlikeness. His quiet counsel always proved to be valuable and effective. We will miss him greatly. Please know that each of you is in our thoughts and prayers. We pray for God's strong hands of love to surround you and protect you during this time of loss. We never understand why good men have to leave us and wonder about where we go from here. But faith is the power that gets us through and we are trusting God to keep His promise that He never will leave us or forsake us....particularly in times like these when we all need Him most. God Bless you today..... George and Charlotte Paden Sand Springs, OK

We are praying for you. God is wrapping his loving arms around you. We love you. Pat,Dennis and Evelyn and family.

Anita, Rodney, and Laura, So sorry for your loss of Vic. Truely a very special man that the world will miss. Always treated our family and myself like we were related. I will miss seeing him in Tanglewood. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and may the Holy Spirit give you comfort at this time of grief. Waymon

We are so sad to hear of Vic's death. We just saw them a few months ago in tanglewood. He was a wonderful gentleman and Christian. We considered him a great friend and we loved him. God be with Anita. Our hearts are heavy. Tanglewood will never be the same without Vic. Cookie and Jim Mccoy

Vic was one of a very small group of people that made MY life, and so many other lives, better, just because we knew him!

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I am so glad I got to know Dr. Robards through working at Urologic Specialists. He was always so kind and a really great leader of our company. He always had a smile and made you feel welcome. My condolence to Anita and family. Wendy Massey

May the peace that passes all understanding be yours. Know the influence of your beloved Vic affected many of us outside your family. Personally, I am confident of standing with a multitude who know Jesus better because of Dr. Robards.

Ted admired Vic so much. He was a true example of a spiritual leader for your family. We are praying for you and love you all. We will see you Wednesday. Ted, Melinda, Audrey, Natalie, and Maggie

Anita and family, We are so proud to call Vic our friend. We are in shock as our hearts go out to you in the loss of this great man. Praying for your peace from our faithful God.

Anita and Laura - We both wanted to give you our condolences with the loss of your husband and father. We will be thinking and praying for you while you celebrate and mourn your loss. Please know we are with you in spirit. Thoughts and Prayers!

Our sincere love and prayers are with you all. Vic was such a great spiritual mentor to us and a friend. He always made us feel like part of your family, and we are privileged to be included in his life. Hugs, Danny & Deb Monkey Island Lake Center Baptist

Praying that our Father will continually wrap you in his strong arms as you walk with Him through this new journey. So glad to know that Vic is there among that great crowd of witnesses cheering us all on until we join him there. Love you.

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We are deeply saddened by the passing of your father.

So sorry to hear of your loss Laura. Our prayers are with you and your family.

We are so sorry to hear of Vic's passing, but know he has received a glorious welcome in heaven! Our prayers and thoughts are with you as you grieve, with hope that all those amazing memories and his beautiful heart live on in your thoughts daily, and bring you so much joy! All our love, The Bayford family (Angela Webster)

Your dad was absolutely one of my very favorite people on earth. There was just something about that tiny little smile he got each time I walked in for some new bizarre exam that set me at ease. And, if you think of it, there was no place on earth that would naturally make you LESS at ease. I didn't get to see him much outside of that little exam room, but he made my life so much better because of the medicine he practiced in that little room, but far more for how he just make you feel good and calm and safe regardless of the woes you faced. What a wonderful man, I think of him so often, and will miss him dearly. Fred

So sorry to hear of his passing my dad knew him. I know he is with Jesus now and to his family we are thinking of you at this time.

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A picture of love, just 4 weeks ago. December 17, 2015. Anita, there simply are no words to express our condolences to you and your family. How blessed we were to celebrate this special day together and to hold dear our many Grand memories with you, Vic, and life-friends.