Thomas Johnston
Obituary
Thomas Oakley Johnston was born in Tulsa, Oklahoma to Earl W. and Annie (Oakley) Johnston, Jr. and passed from this life March 1, 2011 at the age of 33.
February 4, 1984 Tommy was his mother's birthday present as they adopted him. They fell in love with Tommy the first day they saw him and Annie declares he was the greatest present she had ever received. Tommy was a happy person who would laugh easily. Tommy trusted everyone he met and believed the best of themalmost to a fault as he was so tenderhearted that he was easily hurt but he learned to be quick at forgiving.
After graduating Jenks High School he enjoyed horticulture, working at Southwood Nursery for a period of time. He also displayed his artistic side by crafting musical instruments for Calicchio Musical Instruments Incorporated and applying his talent and love to so many different elements of life. His laughter, joy and contribution to life will be greatly missed.
Tommy is survived by his parents; his girlfriend, Shawny San Sing; his sister, Pamela Bloodworth; his brothers, Erik Earl Johnston and John Vernon; and numerous cousins.
A funeral will be held 11:00 a.m. Monday in the Memorial Park Cemetery with interment to follow. In lieu of flowers the family suggests donations be made to the Make A Wish Foundation For Terminally Ill Children, 4504 East 67th Street, Tulsa, OK 74136.
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Tributes & Memories
Funeral Home Owner
Shawny and Family, My heart is breaking for you! You are in our thoughts and prayers. You were always there for us and if you need us, please call or come by....the numbers are the same.....our door is always open to you. We miss you and will be sending love and positive energy to you and all of Tommy's loved ones.
Kelly Somacal
Annie and Earl, I so sorry to hear about the lost of Tommy. We will never know the battle of the mind he was dealing with. He chose not to share that with you. I do know and believe that we always knew who loved him unconditionally. You and Earl. Why he chose this end of his life only he knows and God knows. Although we might never understand the why know this Tommy knew you loved him Annie & Earl and cared for him. It just sad that as a young man on his own trying to live his life he wasn't happy but wrestle with the battle of his mind and chose to end his life. Annie I pray for peace and comfort for you and Earl and for acceptance of this choice Tommy made that you and Earl had no knowledge or control of. I love you and Earl. Be strong in the Lord and know that he knows your pain. I will call you soon. I Love you my friend, Annette Jimerson
Annette Jimerson
I remember Tommie when he was young, full of fun and would bring a laugh and smile to your face even if it was a little mischief's
shirley Hancock
Tommy and I went to High School together. We would always sit next to each other, during Art Class, every day. He had the kindest personality. He always had a smile, a compliment and a word of encouragement to share. I will always remember that Tommy was a good man and a great friend.
To his family: You have my deepest sympathies. May the love of those around you and the comfort of God help you during this difficult time.
Nef Gibbs
"The love and kindness my brother showed to everyone he knew will live in my heart forever."
Erik and Dody, Earl and Annie Johnston
Tommy was part of our family for a year. It was immediately apparent that he was a caring and gentle man, quick to do whatever he could for you. He was loving toward children, getting down to their level to speak with them. His smile would light up his face. He was a man who would walk three miles through the worst snow storm on record to shovel out his girlfriend's car in case she needed to go somewhere. He was so thoughtful of others' needs. This world won't be the same without Tommy. He will be missed.
Regina Sansing
The world has lost a great man. Although I did not have the pleasure of knowing Tommy as well as my sister or the rest of my family, the time I did spend with him was enough to know Tommy had a heart of gold. There was nothing Tommy would not do for the people he cared about. Tommy seemed like the type of man that would give you the shirt off his back, even if it was the last thing he owned. I pray for those whose heart is breaking for the loss of Tommy. May you find peace. God Bless you Tommy!
Stacey Rodriguez
I am so sorry. I loved Tommy so much. He was the sweetest man I have ever known. I have no doubt he is with Jesus, as we had long conversations about the Lord, and to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. May God grant peace beyond all understanding to us all.
Shawny Sansing