Sally Howe Smith

Sally Howe Smith

Obituary

If you reported for jury duty between 1992 and 2016, nearly a quarter of a century, you were greeted by the bright and beautiful smile of the Court Clerk, Sally Howe Smith. She knew you probably didn’t want to be there, and that jury duty was interrupting your daily life. The courthouse was her daily life, and she wanted you to know she was grateful you were there.

Our city lost a devoted public servant, and her family lost a treasure, when Sally passed away on Thursday, April 4. Sally was born in Tulsa, Oklahoma on December 1, 1952. Her first workplace was her last, as she fell in love with the courthouse when she got a summer job working for then-Court Clerk Don Austin. That same summer she met the other love of her life, future State Senator and fellow public servant, Jerry Smith. The couple wed on January 19, 1975 and had a son, whom they named Tucker Smith, on January 13, 1985.

Sally spent 45 of her 66 years on earth, nearly half a century, working in the Tulsa County courthouse. For 24 years she was Court Clerk, the first woman to hold the position, and one of the longest-serving Court Clerks in Tulsa County history. She ran unopposed since 1996, not because nobody else wanted the job, but because nobody else thought they could do it better. More than most Tulsans realize, Sally’s contributions benefit each of us to this day. In 1988, Don Austin appointed her to oversee the computerization of court recordkeeping. It was a monumental, but essential task that few could have handled. Sally could and did. She was also instrumental in the creation of Oklahoma Supreme Court Network. But knowing about computers or administration wasn’t what made Sally exceptional; it was caring about people. She implemented the court’s first cost administration system, granting people the opportunity to pay out their dues. She believed no child should go hungry or without medicine, so if someone called and explained their situation, they received a temporary reprieve. Sally retired in 2016, leaving behind a legacy of fairness, impartiality and faithful devotion to the finest traditions of her calling.

Sally was also a longtime member of Kiwanis Club and was recognized several times by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. She was preceded in death by her parents, Elliott and Imelda Howe, and her husband of 40 years, Jerry Smith. In addition to her child, she is survived by two siblings, Elliott Howe, MD and Nancy Howe; nephews Hunter Cates and Dustin Cates; Dustin’s wife Maggie and daughter Lucy; niece Katy Howe Britton and her husband Nate; caregivers Paula Goodwin and Sandy Call; numerous family members and even more numerous friends.

It would be no exaggeration to say Sally touched the lives of thousands of Tulsans, from all walks of life. No matter who you were or where you came from, Sally greeted everyone with a smile that was warm and genuine, for she truly loved people. That was her superpower. Now her smile looks down from above, guiding us as we strive to live with as much love and compassion for others as she did.

The rosary will be prayed for Sally 6:00 p.m. Thursday, April 11, 2019 at Ninde Brookside Chapel.  Mass of Christian Burial will be said 2:00 p.m. Friday, April 12, 2019 at Church of the Madalene, 3188 East 22nd Street.

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Tributes & Memories

Sally Howe Smith goes WAY back. I've been a bondsman back in the day and saw her name on so much paperwork. I think I've introduced myself to her once. She has had a long standing history with the courthouse. My serious condolences to the family and friends. She is flying high up in the stars smiling down.

Stacy White

Sally! What a marvelous lady who hired me in 1986 as a court clerk for a district judge though my typing skills were just under par. It’s been so many years since we last spoke, but I can say she was quite an individual, one I’ve never forgotten! Graceful, dedicated and thoughtful. May you rest in eternal peace, Sally! This world will miss you, but you belong in heaven with our loving Father. Sorry to hear your family lost you too soon.

Lisa

Oh, Sally, you've gone to heaven much too soon. I know you suffered so much the past few years, but you kept a cheerful attitude and never let it get in the way of your duties. You were always a friend to me and my family. I recalled to you once how beautifully you sang as I accompanied you on keyboard during our youth. You were touched and glad I had remembered from so many years back. You were always giving and kind...Sally, the very intelligent, bright, and beautiful soul. I'll always keep you in my prayers, dear friend.

Tina (Christine Lough) Letang

I may send my condolences to Sally Howe Smith's family. May God be comforted with you in a moment. I never forget her for letting me working with her department for short time, thank you, Sally!

Robin Polin

I was shocked when I heard this. She was still young. I was hoping she did not suffer much. Such a sweet caring beautiful lady. Grew up next door to her. She would come to the fence and talk to my mom when mom was working in the yard. Just a sweet sweet girl. God bless her she is happy now and will watch over us till we all get to heaven to serve God. Rest In Peace you wonderful lady. Love Terri Mark And Tolie

Terri Toliver

Right now, when your loss is so fresh, it may be difficult for you to imagine that this pain will ever go away. But in time the blessing of God's unfailing love will soften the hurt you're feeling and bring your heart the peace, comfort and hope that it needs to heal. How? Revelation 21:4 tells us that soon everything that causes us pain, including death, will be gone forever. We also have the hope of our loved ones being resurrected here on earth, as Acts 24:15 tells us. I do hope you find comfort in this. Though I did not know your loved one, she sound like a beautiful person. I am touched by your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. JW.org.

Fred

Everyone loved you my beautiful Sally!

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Brenda Patton Graham

Thoughts and prayers to the family

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Cathy Evans

Sally was my hero. I worked for the county for 37 years. She was my supervisor. She taught me so much. I was a niave 20 year old when I started and with her help I am the person I am today. Praying for the family and friends. I love you Sally

Janice Maggard

I worked for Sally at the Tulsa County Court Clerk's office for over 10 years. Sally was the sweetest, most caring, and kindest individual that I have ever had the pleasure to meet. My sincere condolences go out to her family and many loved ones. She will be missed dearly. Fly high angel!!! Love Dusty Gross.

Dusty Gross

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Dusty Gross

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