Rosaleen Craig Buthod

Rosaleen Craig Buthod

Obituary

Rosaleen Craig Buthod (April 13, 1927- April 8, 2015)

“Cover lightly, gentle earth”--Ben Jonson

Rosaleen Craig Buthod was born April 13, 1927, in Pine Bluff, Arkansas, at the height of the Great Mississippi River Flood. The doctor rowed to her mother’s second-story bedroom window to deliver the baby.

The fourth of John J. and Mary Holland Craig’s 10 children, Rosaleen moved with her family first to Little Rock and then to Tulsa, where she lived the rest of her life. She graduated from Holy Family High School in Tulsa and attended St. Mary College, Leavenworth, Kansas, and The University of Tulsa, studying English literature and art.

She married her great love, John D. Buthod (Jack), in 1948, and with him raised 11 children.

In the early 1960s, she helped bring the Great Books Program for children to Oklahoma; in the 1970s she began to indulge in her passion for travel. Most recently she has enjoyed caregiver Kazuko Stell’s gift for gardening.

Rosaleen loved babies, flowers, books, music, pictures, champagne, and the stories that weave us all together. She and Jack cared deeply about social justice, passing that concern on to all their children. Rosaleen combined intellectual brilliance with a heart that felt the beat of every other heart. Her gift was in finding the beauty in any thing, the fun in any place, and the kindness in any soul.

She is preceded in death by her husband, Jack; five brothers and three sisters; and her infant daughter Maureen. She is survived by her children, Barbara (Dale MacCallum), Diane, Donald (Virginia), Craig (Tomese), Richard (Ellen), Therese (Randy Stell), Michele (Roger Kidson), Amber (Todd Tobiasz), Lee (Keith Trahan), Tynan (Laura Henderson), and Tim; 21 grandchildren; 5 great-grandchildren; her sister, Sister Maureen Craig of the Sisters of Charity of Leavenworth; countless nieces and nephews, cousins, in-laws, and dear friends. The family expresses deep gratitude to her wonderful caregiver, Kazuko Stell.

Funeral arrangements are being handled by Ninde Funeral Home. Visitation will be held at 6 p.m., Monday, April 13, 2015, followed by a Rosary at 7 p.m., both at her childhood parish church, Holy Family Cathedral. The funeral Mass will be Tuesday, April 14, at 10 a.m., at Holy Family. Interment to follow in Calvary Cemetery.

The family suggests donations in her memory be made to Friends of Catholic Education, www.dioceseoftulsa.org,a donation-matching tuition assistance program and/or San Miguel School, www.sanmigueltulsa.org.

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Funeral Home Owner

Rosaleen was a great lady. Imagine her joy! God bless you.

Sister Mary Clare

She sounds like a fabulous woman. We will have to content ourselves with knowing her thru her son and granddaughter who joined with our family. God bless.

Paige & Pat

Thoughts and prayers to you Craig and your family. Her memory will always live on in all who knew her.

Lynda Murphy Crowley

How is it possible that one small woman could bring so many "Great Books," great children and great joy to all whom she met and even those who only knew her generosity and spirit. She will be missed. Love to all, Fran Ringold

Francine Ringold

Our sympathies go to you, Therese, and Randy, and all the family. Sending much love, Jean

Jean Rolfs

Michele, So sorry for the loss of your mother. Your entire family is in my prayers. Very glad I had the opportunity to meet her at Holly's wedding. She was a wonderful woman and obviously a great mother. Safe travels for all returning home in the next few days.

Bunker Hill

Your mother was a wonderful and beautiful lady. I am so glad that I got to meet her at Holly's wedding. You all are in our prayers. Amy, Colton, Grayson Weltman

Amy Weltman

Craig and Richard, Our sympathy go to you and your family at your mother's death. She must have been a wonderful lady to have cared for you and your siblings and to accomplish all that she did. It's always sad to lose a mother. Blessings to you. Jane

Jane

Tomese, so sorry for your and your husband's loss. It's never an easy time but good memories are always with you all.

Lisa Murphy

My sympathies to you both Craig and Tomese, and your extended family. Such a lovely tribute. May you find comfort in all the stories and shared memories of good times gone by.

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My deepest condolences on the passing of wonderful Aunt Rosaleen. She was such a lovely woman, and I can only imagine how terribly she will be missed by her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. She sent me a few letters in recent years that brought me great comfort. It's hard to imagine the world without her. All our love, Stephanie Martin-Ward Steve, Daniel, and Sean Francis Ward

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Our deepest sympathies to you and yours. She was a beautiful and wonderful woman. A loving mother and aunt. She will be missed.

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Dear Lee, The love that you and your siblings poured into your mother these last years has been a tribute and beautiful example of how a family is to take care of and love each other. Each time you prepared to return to Tulsa for a weekend w/Mom, you always had a fun adventure/outing planned. Thank you for the example your family has set for all of us in caring for our aging parents w/dignity. i pray that this be a tender and gentle time for each member of your family. My condolences, Linda Rutgard

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I last saw Mrs. Buthod at my dad's funeral nearly 9 years ago now, which she attended with Barbara. They were both amazed that I could still rattle off the names in order of all 12 children (including Maureen) and Mrs. B recalled how she enjoyed hearing my piano practice as it wafted through the neighborhood on warm days when the door was open (I'm sure she was being kind). Of course, I remember some of the names in more detail - Ann Marie, Lee Butler, Tynan Charles... She was a loving and fiercely protective mother to her beloved brood (as I learned to my pain on a few occasions), but I and my family always had the highest respect and admiration for that amazing household. Such an interesting group, dividing sharply in personality between the hearty Irish and the more shall we say high maintenance French - or so I always felt, rightly or wrongly. At any rate, all who knew and loved her have my deepest sympathy.

Bill Palik

Maggie and I send our condolences to the Family for this great loss. Since we came together about four years ago, Maggie brought me over to visit with Rosaleen and family several times. Rosaleen was always warm and friendly, and ever sharp as a tack. These visits were an enjoyable experience. She will be missed. As we say in the Navy, may she have fair winds and following seas on this journey.

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Rosaleen was a such a lovely woman. I so enjoyed her stories!!! My heart is sad for all of you as you send your beloved mother to her heavenly home. May she rest in peace!!! With much love, Martha

Martha Fell Desmond

Your mom was a very special, unforgettable lady. I feel privileged to have known her.

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KD and I are thinking of you and your wonderful Mother- she was always so kind -

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