Robert Louis Stover

Robert Louis Stover

Obituary

Robert Louis (“Bob”) Stover of Tulsa, Oklahoma passed from this life into life eternal on October 26, 2017.  He was 93 years old.  Born in Pond Creek, Oklahoma on August 31, 1924, Bob was the youngest twin son of Henry J. and Myrtie E. Stover.  He was preceded in death by his siblings Harold, Donald, Forest, Margaret and Richard, and his loving wife, Ann Keeslar Stover – a native of Oklahoma City.

Bob grew up in Pond Creek and later Enid where he graduated from high school.  He attended the University of Oklahoma from 1942-46, majoring in Petroleum Engineering.  It was at OU that he met and married his wife Ann.  Bob was in the Navy ROTC and Reserve at OU and also played varsity football under coach Dewey “Snorter” Luster during those war years.  He was always proud that the Sooners won the Big Six championship in 1944.  Bob was called to active duty near the end of the war in the Pacific, then returned to Norman when the war was over to finish his education and receive his degree.

In his professional career with Skelly Oil, Anderson Prichard and Union Texas Petroleum, Bob and Ann lived in various cities in West Texas, New Mexico and briefly in Oklahoma City before spending longer periods in Great Bend, Kansas and Midland, Texas, where their three children Bruce, Robert Jr. and Peggy grew up.  From 1972-1985, Bob and Ann enjoyed international assignments with Union Texas in Singapore, Jakarta, Indonesia and London.  They retired to Lakeway, Texas in 1985 and lived many happy years there until Ann’s death in 2003.  Bob moved to Tulsa in 2004 and resided at Montereau where he was affectionately known in the earlier years as “the Mayor”.

More important than his professional life and achievements are the countless people whose lives he positively impacted in his 93 years on this earth.  Bob was unpretentious with an irrepressible positive spirit and genuine kindness that influenced every life he touched.  He was a loving and caring husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather and father-figure to the families of his siblings who preceded him in death.  His true legacy is not what he did in his work, but what he did to make a positive and enduring difference in the lives of others – family, friends, co-workers and countless others in his sphere on influence.  Well done good and faithful servant!

He is survived by his three children – Peggy (of Tulsa), Robert Jr. (of Ada) and Bruce (of Oklahoma City), as well as his six grandchildren, 4 step-grandchildren, and 14 great grandchildren who lovingly called him “B-Bob”.

Bob’s life was both extended and enriched by the friendships he made in his 14 years at Montereau, most especially Ms. Sue Price, who has become part of the family.

A Celebration of Life Service will be held in the Coterie Theatre at Montereau in Tulsa on November 11 at 11:00 am.  A reception will follow.  Interment will be at a later date in the Memorial Garden at The Lakeway Church in Lakeway, Texas.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that extended family and friends make a donation to either NewViewOklahoma or the Food Bank of Eastern Oklahoma.  The family wishes to express its gratitude to the many people in the Montereau family who cared so lovingly for their Dad over the last 14 wonderful years of his life. 

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I just found out that Bob had passed away a year ago when I was checking the memory section of Ninde for the obituary of a second cousin of mine from my mother's side of the family when I discovered Bob's obituary. Needless to say, my wife, Marianne, and I were always fond of Bob. He was always friendly and a pleasant person to be around. He was a real gentleman of the highest caliber. As the husband of my cousin, Ann Stover, I had known Bob from the date of his marriage to Ann. We never lived in the same city, but we always kept in contact particularly at Christmas, special family get-togethers, and other special occasions. We stopped getting Christmas cards from him several years ago leading us to fear that his health had taken a bad turn. We kept our cards up for a couple more years until we moved to a new address in Arlington, Texas, after having downsized from a larger home that became too much for us to properly maintain. We wish to extend our condolences to Bob's children and other family members. They have the certain knowledge that Bob lived a good life in every respect and they surely can take comfort in that fact and in the fact that he was respected, loved, and admired by his many friends and family members. Bill Brown

Bill and Marianne Brown

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's been years but he was always so friendly and fun when I would see him and your mom at the Theta house. What a full life he lived. God bless all of you through this transition time. XO

Martha Thomas

Peggy, Bruce and family. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I truly enjoyed Bobs company during the times i knew him at Montereau as one of his caregivers. He was definitely one of a kind and i will never forget him. I also appreciate you and Bruce i enjoyed getting to visit with you as well. Praying for peace and comfort during this time. Sincerely, Stephanie Lewis

Stephanie Lewis

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