Robert Lee Parker

Robert Lee Parker

Obituary

Robert L. "Bob" Parker was a man known for his national leadership in the energy industry and in the Tulsa business community. But Bob's greatest pride was in his family and his church. Bob and his wife, Cissy were the parents of three children, Robert L. Jr., Carol and Debra. The Parkers looked to their kids' accomplishments with pride, while also sharing in their disappointments. The couple took great delight in their 11 grandchildren and eight great grandchildren and rarely missed an opportunity to be part of grandkids' activities. Family gatherings at the Parker's Tulsa home, or their beloved Cypress Springs Ranch near Kerrville, Texas, were special times and Bob will be remembered as a fun-loving, practical jokester, "R.L."

Bob was a quiet man of deep faith. On the reception tables in his Parker Drilling Company offices were copies of the Holy Bible, with nothing on the cover but gold leaf lettering that stated, THE PLAN FOR BUSINESS. Bob grew up in the First United Methodist Church in Tulsa and over his life he contributed significant time and resources for the continual development and evangelical mission of the church. He served in various leadership roles in the congregation, and in many quiet ways, too. In the 1980s, the Parker family provided the funding for the Children's Building at First United Methodist. Bob was an active lay leader and served as delegate to the United Methodist General Conference for many years. Bob was modest about his faith and gently shared the gospel of Jesus with others — from presidents and congressmen, to leaders of the largest oil companies and roughnecks on Parker Drilling rigs. Committed to his employees, Bob hired a full time pastor to minister to Parker Drilling people around the world. In 2001, the native Tulsan was recognized by the National Boy Scouts of America with the organization's God & Service Award. An avid outdoorsman, Bob hunted and fished and loved being in nature. In 1940, he became the World's Open Skeet Champion, the youngest person to hold that honor. Bob was a member of the U.S. All American First Team in Skeet and was inducted into the National Skeet Shooting Hall of Fame. Under Bob's direction, the Parker ranches in Kerrville and near Masie, Oklahoma were turned into exotic wildlife and/or game hunting and fishing sanctuaries. Another love for Bob was his alma mater, the University of Texas. It was there he met his future wife, Catherine Mae "Cissy" McDaniel. They married on December 16, 1944. At UT, he studied Petroleum Engineering, in which he received a Bachelor of Science degree. He also was a member of Kappa Sigma fraternity. For several years Bob served as a director of the Development Board of the University of Texas at Austin, and in 1969, he received UT's Distinguished Engineering Graduate Award. Ten years later he was honored with a University of Texas Distinguished Alumnus Award. Rarely did Bob and Cissy miss a Longhorns home game and the Parkers' love for burnt orange always caused a stir in Tulsa, especially during the week of UT-Oklahoma games, when a huge Texas flag would be unfurled from atop the oil derrick on top of Parker Drilling's downtown headquarters. For years, Bob instigated a good-natured rivalry full of practical jokes with Sooner Federal, a Tulsa banking institution with deep ties to the other university.

After graduating from college, Bob joined the Army, where he served as an officer in post-war Germany. When he returned, he passed on a job offer at Atlantic Richfield to work for his father, Gifford, at Parker Drilling Company. Learning the business from the ground up, Bob and Cissy lived in the oilfields of Mississippi and Texas. In 1949, the Parkers moved to Tulsa. In 1954, Bob became the owner of Parker Drilling by matching the highest bid offered by an outside investor. Under his leadership, the contract oil and gas driller expanded internationally and became known for its technological advances that transformed the industry. Parker's research and development brought forth innovations such as Arctic drilling and ultra-deep drilling technical advances. Parker's patented Transportable By Anything lightweight rigs opened previously inaccessible areas to energy development. In 1969, Bob took the company public and Parker Drilling became the first western drilling contractor to operate in China, Vietnam and republics of the former Soviet Union. In the late 1990s, Parker acquisitions moved the driller into offshore markets and into the oilfield supply business. The company has operated in more than 50 countries.

Bob's quiet, but effective leadership in the oil and gas industry brought him many honors and accolades. In 1981, President Ronald Reagan appointed Bob to chair the United States Energy Policy Task Force, a position for which he was awarded the U.S. Secretary of Energy's Distinguished Service Medal. For years at his Kerrville ranch, Bob, along with son Bob Jr. -- who rose to become president and chief executive officer of Parker Drilling -- regularly hosted a summit of energy industry leaders and high level government officials, including former presidents, U.S. Senators and governors. Bob was a director of the American Petroleum Institute, the National Petroleum Council, the Independent Petroleum Association of America, the International Association of Drilling Contractors and served on numerous corporate boards. In 1999, Bob was named recipient of the American Petroleum Institute's Gold Medal.

In Tulsa, Bob served as chairman of the board of First United Methodist Church, as well as Saint Francis Hospital, the University of Tulsa and the Thomas Gilcrease Association. He received honorary doctorates from Oral Roberts University and John Brown University. He was a past trustee of John Brown University, Southern Methodist University, Perkins School of Theology at SMU and the Maguire Oil & Gas Institute at SMU. He also was a past director of the University of Texas-M.D. Anderson Cancer Center, the Indian Nations Council of Boy Scouts of America and the YMCA of Greater Tulsa. In 1992, Bob was inducted into the Oklahoma Hall of Fame and in 2001, the Tulsa Hall of Fame. He also was a Tulsa Press Club Headliner. A graduate of Culver Military Academy, Bob was named Culver Man of the Year, in 1981.

Robert Lee Parker was born in Tulsa on July 16, 1923, to Gifford and Gladys Parker. He died on July 9, 2016, at the age of 92. Bob was preceded in death by his wife Cissy, and daughter Carol Adams. He is survived by his children Bob, Jr. and wife Risa, and Debbie and husband Phil Hinch. Also surviving are grandchildren Robb Parker, Austin and Adam Rodriguez, Kimberly Adams, Ashley and Dave Blazer, Jamey Adams, Julie Marshall, Christy and Rick Parker, Cara and John Jordan, Hailey and Ryan Woodard, Bradi Hinch, Brooke Hinch and eight great grandchildren.

A funeral service will be held 2:00 PM Wednesday, July 13, 2016 at First United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, friends may contribute in Bob’s memory to the First United Methodist Church Memorial Fund, 1115 South Boulder Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 or www.fumctulsa.org/give.

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Tributes & Memories

M.R Parker was one of the great's in this fantastic industry we all work in, for me it was an honor to have worked for such a great man and company, RIP M.R Parker. Ewan and Family

Ewan Dunn

What a great man I spent 19 yrs of my oil field career with Parker Drilling and it was RL whom made this company like a family,I will never forget that and may he RIP he will be missed by all

Herbie Hooper

On behalf of my family, our prayers and thoughts are with the entire family of Mr. Parker. My sister and I will forever be grateful for the long career our father, Jack Willard, enjoyed with Parker Drilling. Not only did the company provide for our upbringing and education, but Mr. Parker's Christian values had a very positive effect on employees. Mr. Parker's life is definitely a shining example of a life lived abundantly for our Lord.

Randy Willard

Our Prayers & Condolences are with you all.

Roy Parker's Family

MR. Bobby my Family and I are so sorry to hear the passing of your Father MR. Robert L Parker SR. you and your Father has been a great influence in my life and working for a fine Company like Parker Drilling has been one of the greatest Blessing in my life. May God be with you and your Family during your time of sorrow.

ALLEN WALLACE

My heart breaks for the loss of such a wonderful man who accomplished such great things and touched so many hearts and lives. His legacy will live on for many generations to come and he will forever be in our hearts. I pray Bobby and the rest of the family can find comfort in knowing that so many people admired Mr. Parker and will never forget him or everything he did to help others. A truly kind soul who everyone had the greatest respect for. May he rest in peace with our Lord until you meet him again. Deepest sympathies, Tami Nutley

Tami Nutley

Bobby, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stephanie & Gavin

Gavin H Smith

I grieve the loss of Bob Parker from this world, but I know that heaven and Cissy rejoice at his arrival in glory. Bob was everybody's friend from when I was a Tulsa police officer, when I worked with Oral Roberts, and later in business. We moved to Naples, Florida 30 years ago and I have always missed my chats and encounters with my friend. My prayers are with the family in this sorrow. Your Bob had more friends than any man could ever have and he took Jesus with him where ever he went. He was an inspiration to all and I look forward to seeing him again someday soon. God Bless You, Les & Susan

Les and Susan Dickson

Mr Parker was truly a great man and I am saddened at his passing, but rejoicing in his home going as he is in the presence of the Lord. I have not known a more generous and loving man and have been the recipient of his generosity many times. I and my family are truly thankful to have known this great man. R. Sutliff

Richard Sutliff

Dear Bobby, Debi and your family, As I have told many people, your father was one of the finest, most remarkable and truly great man that I have ever known. I am pretty sure you are hearing this a lot and that is because it is true. I will always be thankful that he gave me an opportunity to work at Parker Drilling and my years there formed in great measure the man I am today. The good parts anyway.. I am also grateful that when I did move on your father treated me so graciously and it was one of the real treats when on occasion we could meet, have lunch and hear about his latest escapades and adventures. Your father's relish of going into the unknown continues to inspire me and will inspire me the rest of my life. He was a truly courageous man. You all know this better than me, so please allow me to offer my condolences to you, and as I see, a host of others. May the Lord Jesus Christ bless you all. Garth

Garth Pickard

Mr. Parker was one of the finest gentleman that I have every known. His leadership has set the bar at the highest level. I'm thankful to have known such a man. As quoted from Ralph W. Emerson: Great men are they who see that spiritual is stronger than any material force - that thoughts rule the world. May you rest in peace Mr. Parker for your work is done here on earth. God has now got an angel in Heaven that has served Him throughout his life. I will miss but not forget you and for all that you have done for this old driller... I pray for your family and comfort in knowing that you have gone to Eternal Peace. JDS

John Sturgeon

The Parker's are wonderful people. Bob Sr. was a remarkable, born leader. I was blessed to work for the company in Casper, Denver, Tulsa, and Houston and I've always been proud of my association with Sr. Jr and the Parker Drilling Company family. Please be comforted knowing Bob, Sr. is now eternally happy and is surely pranking others in paradise.

Tom Wingerter

The Parker Family; Words cannot express my sadness. May the comfort of God help you through this difficult time. Mr. Parker will live forever in my memory, It was his way of life and business that taught me if you work hard, treat people right and still have some fun with practical jokes that life will be rewarding. Although Mr. Parker stature in society was at the highest level he treated me as though I was his best friend. He will be missed but never forgotten. Steve Carmichael

Steve Carmichael

I received this sad news from my former colleagues at Parker Drilling. It was a true honour and a real privilege to have been a part of the Parker Drilling international family while Mr. Parker was leading the company. A true leader, true visionary and inspirational when it mattered the most. My condolences to Bobby and the other members of the Parker family.

Douglas Parker

Bob Parker was a wonderful Christian. I had been to a few of Parker Drilling Christmas party. I have always admired him and his wife. My first husband (Gary Burchfield who is deceased) worked for Mr. Parker. Gary wanted to have his own business and Mr. Parker gave him the funds to start his business. Gary paid Mr. Parker back. With Sympathy to the family! Cordelia (Burchfield) Luce

Cordelia (Burchfield)Luce

From, Garth, Tammy and Sons (Pickard), To The Parker Family, Our family sends our sincerest condolences to Uncle Bob's Family. We always so enjoyed our many times together with Uncle Bob. He was a lot of fun and always had great stories to tell us. He was a great man and for my husband Garth, one to be looked up to always. Bob was a great mentor and friend to Garth during his many business years working for Parker Drilling Co. For that Garth is truly grateful for the great opportunity that your father's company gave him. The learning, working and experience that it has afforded him has been so invaluable to him many times over. Garth will always appreciate and will always have fond memories of working for Bob Sr. As his niece,I will always treasure our special times together with Uncle Bob as will all of my family too. May the Lord comfort and bless you all in Christ. Love to you all in Him, Tammy, Garth, Adam, Josh and Andrew Pickard

Tammy and Garth Pickard

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