Robert Barnes
Obituary
Robert Eugene (Bob) Barnes was born August 8, 1925 in Tulsa, Oklahoma to Fletcher Henry Barnes and Oza Jevera (Coffman) Barnes. After graduating from Tulsa Daniel Webster High School in 1942, Bob proudly served in the United States Navy as a signals instructor during WWII. On August 11, 1946, he married Betty Jo Goodman in Independence, Kansas. Ironically, he passed away in Tulsa on his and Betty's 65th wedding anniversary at the age of 86. Bob retired from T.G.&Y, where he had been a store manager and district supervisor. Always a hard worker, Bob then began a second career on the staff at Barnes and Barnes, Inc. in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
Bob was preceded in death by his parents; sister, Joan Kelso; brother, Fletcher Henry, Jr. and his grandsons, Greg and Ryan Barnes.
He is survived by his wife Betty; daughter, Jody and her husband Bill of Edmond, Oklahoma; son, Robert E. Barnes, Jr. and wife Becky of Sand Springs, Oklahoma; son, Larry Barnes and wife Debbie of Sand Springs, Oklahoma; son, Gary Barnes of Jenks, Oklahoma; sister, Patricia Briggs, of Tulsa, Oklahoma; nine grandchildren, Doug, Darren, Jason, Matt, Jennifer, Julie, Travis, Justin and Jill; fourteen great-grandchildren; numerous nieces and nephews.
Bob was a gentle, kind and loving man, who was known to be devoted to his family. His loved ones will have precious memories of him and keep him forever in their hearts.
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Darren and Gary and Larry, I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Grandpa! i wish i could have made the service, but i was out of town on business. I know he was very special to you all. Know i am thinking about you. Matt McCoy
Matt McCoy
My Uncle Bob was the nicest man I've ever known. He always took time to make me feel special. I don't think there was a more perfect couple than Uncle Bob and Aunt Betty.
Rebecka Shaw
Matt, Kathy, Heather, and family. So sorry for your loss. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Much love! Damon, Jamie, Julia and Jacee
Damon and Jamie Minter
Jody and Bobby, I was sorry to hear that your dad passed away. Your parents were always very nice to me when I visited with your family, and I have a lot of good memories - being with all of you was like having a second family! Take care - you are in my thoughts.
Marilyn (Yaunt) McGee
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Barnes. He was the nicest and most loving family man I ever knew. It meant so much to me to see him at my father's funeral 3 years ago (Robert Lay). I know you will miss him, but you will see him again. God Bless you all.
Melvin and Robbie Lay Kilgore
Bobby and Jody - it's been a long, long time since our days at Park, Clinton, and Webster. I recall how active your mom and dad were in school activities and how we were always welcome in your home. My condolences to all of your family during this difficult time.
Sandra Douglas Massey
So sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I went to school with Bobby, Jody, and Larry. My brother Sammy knew all of you the best. He passed away in 2009. My prayers and thoughts are with your family at this time. Keep the faith in God and he will see you through this. God bless you all. Susie Peek Hardin
Deanna Peek Hardin
Dear Barnes family, I am one of the nurses that takes care of Betty. I was very shocked to see the passing of such a kind and gentle man. Bob adored Betty and his whole family. We often talked of his family and mine. He was always asking how my grandkids were and always quick to make a compliment. The world will have a big hole to fill and even larger heart to replace this wonderful man. I only knew Bob from the nursing home and can only hope that my husband and family will adore me as Bob has done for Betty. He will be truly missed. You are in my thoughts and prayer and have my Deepest Sympathy.
Charlotte Lee
Doug Terry and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Kristi (Rice) Reeves
Kristi Curry (was Rice) Reeves
We are so sad to hear this. What a wonderful man he was. I always enjoyed his conversations we had during income tax season. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.
Darla Osborn and Artell Carmichael
Bobby, Becky, Jody and family So sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Glenna Arterberry Hiseley
Uncle Bob and Aunt Betty will alway be very special to me. Our visits to see Betty and Bob when we were kids was the highlite of the summer vacation. We looked forward to the trip to Bell's with all our cousins. I remember Bob always had a smile on his face and a very kind/gentle man. I know how hard it is to watch a parent slowly fad, as Mom (Grace) just passed away June 24th after a long battle. My prayers are with the Barnes family, but I know Bob is in a better place. Mom and Dad will be there to welcome in heaven. I wish I could be there in person to pay my respects personally, but I am out of stste all next week. God Bless all of you, John
John and Patricia Goodman Family