
Kristin Mills Ragland made her journey home on Monday, July 7, 2008 after a long battle with brain cancer. She never quit fighting and never lost hope for a cure that will someday come. She believed that hope is found at Duke University in Durham, North Carolina, where the physicians never stop trying and, through their work with patients like Kristin, a cure will be found. Kristin was 35.
Kristin was born July 23rd, 1972 to parents Stephen Kent and Marian Mills. She was born in St. Francis Hospital in Tulsa, Oklahoma and attended Holland Hall School from preschool through to graduation in 1991. Kristin attended the University of Tulsa, where she was a member of Delta Gamma Sorority. Kristin graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Business Management from the University of Tulsa. It was in that final year at T.U. that she met her husband, David Ragland.
Kristin was employed at Kenco Engineering Company until the time of her passing. Kenco Engineering Company is a third generation family owned manufacturing business in Tulsa. In her 12 years at Kenco, Kristin served in many capacities, including time served as Chief Operations Officer, making key management contributions. Kristin loved working side by side with her father, her husband, and her brother, on many projects. Her greatest project was being a wife and mother to her two children, Katie, 6, and Robert, 8. Kristin was a full time mom all throughout her ongoing illness. Her childrens' busy schedules kept her going and were a symbol of her tenacity and willingness to keep things as normal as possible. Prior to and during her illness, Kristin kept her body in the finest physical condition, so that she would have the physical and mental strength to fight the continual progression of her illness. Kristin was a gourmet cook and especially enjoyed cooking for her family and others. Her family and friends were recipients of many meals and baked treats that were an expression of her love. Kristin wanted to experience everything she could with her kids and expose them to as many positive things in life as possible.
Kristin attended Bible Study Fellowship every week and raised her family to be faithful to the Lord. Kristin was preceded in death in December 2007 by her role model and loving father Steve and is survived by her devoted husband David, children Katherine and Robert, her loving mother Marian Mills, her loving mother-in-law Georgina Anderson, brother Ken Mills and sister-in law Sunny Mills and their son Bodhi Southard, her uncle Sam Martin and Aunt Sherry Martin, as well as many in-laws, cousins, nephews, nieces, and friends.
Kristin's memorial service will be held on Friday, July 11, 2008, at First Presbyterian Church at 11 AM.
Kristin found great comfort in the care she received from doctors, nurses, and others in the healthcare community here in Tulsa and in Durham. In honor of their fine work, the family is asking that donations in her honor be made to the Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center at Duke University and the St. John Medical Center Foundation. Addresses for each can be found below:
Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center at Duke University Box 3624 DUMC Durham, NC 27710
St. John Medical Center Foundation 1923 S. Utica Tulsa, OK 74104
Kristin, you’ll never be forgotten.
JGT
Dear Ken and David, I would like to extend my deepest sympathies to you and your families for the loss of your beloved Kristin. I'm very sad to hear about that. Please accept our sincere condolences from all of us in I M Kinetic Asia.
Daniel Fong
I loved my aunt Kristen, we did a lot together and will always remember the trip we took to England with everybody. Uncle David I love you and Robert and Katie always remember that your mom loved you no matter where she is at. I am sharing your sympathy.I love you aunt Kristen you were very strong. xoxoxo Brooke
Brooke Connelly
Dearest Marian, David, Katie, and Robert, Our hearts go out to you in this time of great sorrow and fantastic memories of a wonderful person. We so would have loved to be with you today to share your memories and celebrations of Kristin. Please call on us whenever you need a shoulder or a hug. Love much, Kathy and Kent
Kathy Clark
Please accept our sincere condolences from all of us at OPECo, Inc., Oklahoma City, OK.
Mark Day
Dear Robert, I'm so sorry your mom died. We said prayers for you and your mom last night. Love, Matthew Gawey 1st grader
Matthew Gawey
Dear Dave, We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayer is that you and your Family will experience the comfort and peace that only our Heavenly Father can provide. Psalm 46:1- "God is our refuge and strength and is ever present help in difficult times". It is unfortunate that we never had the opportunity to meet your lovely wife, but as Christians, we know we will all be together in the end. Our Sincere Sympathy and Prayers, The Lohman Family Brian, Michelle, Coltin and Preston
Brian Lohman
We are heart broken by your loss and covering you in our prayers.
Toya McHam
Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your beautiful Kristin. Our prayers are with you and your family. Sincerely, Jim and Lise Dean
Lise Dean
Kristin was an amazing woman filled with courage and a huge amount of faith. It seems as if she never let her illness get in the way of being a wonderful role model to her children, or her everyday life. God bless her soul. David, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Jessica, Perry, Kathlyn and Tres Farmer
Jessica Farmer
Dear David, Robert, & Katie, We are deeply sorry for your loss. Your mother was a beautiful person and will be missed by all of us. Please know we are thinking of you. Love, Jay, Janie, & Lilly Sallinger
Janie Sallinger