Kenneth Pate

Kenneth Pate

Obituary

Kenneth (Jerry) Pate was born September 13, 1929 in Damon, Oklahoma to Kenneth Ike and Rena Mae (Harvey) Pate. A lifelong Tulsa resident, he went to be with our Lord Monday, April 20, 2009 at the age of 79 surrounded by loved ones.

He was raised in Anderson Creek, Oklahoma where he attended grade school and the Buffalo Valley High School. He joined the Navy and was stationed in Genoa, Italy and served aboard the USS Ernest G. Small Carrier Ship from 1947 to 1950. Upon his return, he attended Eastern Oklahoma State College in Wilburton receiving his Associates degree. He worked for Bethlehem Steel for a short time and then at Douglas Aircraft in the painting and purchasing departments. He later joined American Airlines, where he worked for 34 years retiring from the Purchasing and Warranty Department.

Ken dedicated 8 years of service to the Tulakogee Conference Center for the Baptist Association and was a member of the Ranch Acres Baptist Church in Tulsa. He always enjoyed sharing scriptures from the bible with others. Ken loved flying and held a private pilots' license. He enjoyed fishing, horse shoes and spending time with family and friends. He particularly looked forward to his family reunions at Robbers Cave in Wilburton every July. Ken was a dedicated dad, grandfather and brother. He was known as "Uncle Ken" to many and was a friend to all who knew him. He will be remembered and missed by all of us.

Ken is in heaven at a reunion of his own with his mom and dad; his grandson, Kendall Pate; his brother, Johnny Pate; and, his sisters, Beatrice Anderson and Lavada Phipps, all of whom preceded him in death. Ken is survived by his children, Jerry and Jana Pate, both of Tulsa; grandson, Forrest Pate of Moore, OK; sister and brother-in-law, Lahoma and Delbert Hotubbee of Tuskahoma, OK; brother, Robert "Bobby" Pate of McAlester, OK; brother and sister-in-law Jacky and Lucy Pate of Talihina, OK; and numerous nieces, nephews and friends. The family would like to thank those friends who visited with him often and the many caregivers who were there through this difficult time for Ken and his family.

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wiggley tail bone

say that dumb shi 1 more time I swear

pubert

wsg Kenneth pate.. its been awhile vro, nigga, wtv yk, type shi, just wanted to let you know I'm thinking Abt you ong oms yu was a real 1 fosho

Weiner warrior

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scary larry

yesterday was mothers day i miss mom,nvm nigga yous a bitch, hope you get rocked by a polar bear small ass nigga ong u w the poop spikes kill yourself nigger

scary larry

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scary larry

shut up nigga

scary larry

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dingus

after a while, nigga

dingus

love you too nigga

dingus

hey grandpa! i found a picture of you after looking for so long. you looked so young and happy... im getting ahead of myself just wanna say thanks for the fetynol!! love you!!

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ohio

take care polar bear...

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ohio

I miss you little man I remember when us and the toon spikes used to run 63rd Its so sad that pinku pawlette hit you with her super

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sigma

Lit a candle in memory of Kenneth Pate

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sigma

miss you luh bro green fuck ngga

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ohio

Fly high big man

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sigma

been gone for years but still miss yall big dawgs, missing yall fr fr

dingus

miss you too big dawg, heaven is chill ong

dingus

i was in ohio before i met you rizz to much its an issue grimace shake

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ohio

miss you nigga

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ohio

Cat in memory of Kenneth Pate

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sigma

Dear Uncle Ken,

So sorry that my family wasn't around to say our goodbyes. We had no idea that you had left and only discovered this a number of years later. My memories were all amazing and cherished. I recall the family gatherings, horseshoes, many times spent fishing, riding in your pickup with the camper. As a kid, you can't fully appreciate the value of those times, but my takeaway then as it is now, you were kind, gentle, soft spoken, straight shooting and without drama. My heart breaks for all of the family's loss and especially Jana's. Her heart felt message is also mine as it is for my daddy whom I dearly miss. He left us much too early at the young age of 65. Wishing we could all turn back the hands of time and do it even better the second time. There will be a better day for us all and we shall meet again. Until then, please be with us and especially my dear cousin, Jana. We all love and miss you and your family very much. On behalf of the Bagley family, Duane (now passed), Gloria Jean, Phil, Mark and Krista (now passed), we offer our respects and blessings.

Phil

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Phil Bagley

Remembering your daddy Jana Anna He was always so very nice to me and so funny ! Love Lori

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Lori Barnhill

Daddy-I have know idea why I do the math (3 yrs)today 4:38pm I lost 1/2 my heart...I still cry, I know you are thrilled to be where you are now but I was not ready..I miss you daddy. Forrest is getting married next week I know you will be there for him in spirit but I wish you were beside me..(maybe you will be).Just wanted to say hello and I will watch for your hello's check in from time to time my heart is open..I love you daddy.

Jana Pate

DEAR DADDY- I HOPE THIS FIND YOU BLESSED BEFORE JESUS. I KNOW YOU WERE SO READY TO MEET HIM FACE TO FACE. I'M OK JERRY HAD A SON (I KNOW U KNOW) BUT THEY NAMED HIM KENLYNN. HAVE YOU SEEN MY HOUSE? THE DOORBELL RINGS FOR NO REASON. I ALWAYS THINK OF YOU SAYING HELLO. WITH FLOWERS POPPING UP FOR NO REASON I KNOW IT'S YOU SAYING HELLO. I MISS YOU BUT I KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING OVER ME AND I'M AT PEACE. I'LL CHAT WITH YOU AGAIN SOON. RING TO DOORBELL I WONT BE FAR AWAY. AND I'LL ANSWER I LOVE YOU DADDY.

JANA ANN PATE

Dear Daddy- It's been 2yrs now since you left. I think of you everyday..I hope you can see my house you bought me you would be so proud. The flowers are blooming and everyone that comes out reminds me of you saying hello (i'm here). We are all ok. Forrest turns 21 this year he's a good man. I miss you daddy plz tell everyone I said hello...I'll see you in the future..with arms open wide..I love you daddy.

Jana Pate

Dear Daddy-It's been almost a year since we said goodbye. I still cry and miss you so much. Your voice is still on my vmail. I don't want to lose the sound of your beautiful voice (always) so kind. I do find pennies on the ground and think of you and how we would always make a wish. we are ok here if there's anything you need send me a sign I wont be far away. I love you DADDY .......Jana

Jana Pate

hAPPY FATHERS DAY DADDY!!! I MISS YOU EVERY MINUTE OF EVERYDAY. SAY HELLO TO ALL OUR LOVE ONES. WE'LL ALL BE TOGETHER AGAIN TILL THEN TAKE CARE.........I LOVE YOU JANA

JANA PATE

Please accept my deepest sympathy; my thoughts and prayers are with you. Ken was the kindest, most gentle person I have ever known. He was loved and admired by many. God bless you all, Susan Davis

Susan Davis

Jana, our sympathy to you and Jerry in the lose of your father. I know you will miss him as will we and all of his friends. Just remember, one day we will all meet again. Our best to you and your family. We love you both very much. Leon, Shelia and Kevin Burnett

Shelia Burnett

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