Justin Zellers

Justin Zellers

Obituary

Justin Howard Zellers was born on May 5, 1979 in Virginia Beach, VA to Jeff and Elaine (Mills) Zellers. Justin passed from this life on Wednesday, June 6, 2012 in Tulsa, OK at the age of 33.

Justin served overseas in the Army and was a devoted and loving father, son, husband, brother and friend. He is survived by his wife, Ryan; 3 sons, Ashton Michael Zellers, Owen Matthew Zellers and Greyson Howard Zellers, all of the home; his father, Jeff Zellers, of Leonard, OK and his mother, Elaine Zellers, of Tulsa, OK; 4 brothers, Brian Zellers, of Ponca City, OK, Jared, Devin and Logan Zellers, all of Tulsa, OK.

Memorial Mass 10:00 A.M. Tuesday, June 12th, Christ the King Catholic Church, 1520 S. Rockford Ave., Tulsa, OK

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Big Brothers and Big Sisters of Oklahoma, 5840 S. Memorial Drive, Suite 105, Tulsa, OK 74133 or www.bbbsok.org.

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Tributes & Memories

It has been very difficult to write a fitting tribute to my friend Justin.  I have spent a lot of time in the last few days trying to put the right words on paper.  One thing is for certain; a number of words kept coming back as I would sit down to think about this. Father, Husband, Son, Soldier and Friend.  Of course, another word that you can’t forget when you talk about Justin is “Tattoo�. If you ever drank beer with Justin, and I did on occasion, you got the story of his Tattoos.  Each one marked the most important things in his life.  He expressed his love of Ryan, his kids and his family on his arms.  He expressed his pride in his days in the Army and his service to our country also on his arms.  He also had one word on his side that I have taken comfort in since I learned the tragic news last week.  On his side he had the word HOPE.  I have thought a lot about that word in the last few days.  At the worst times in the last week, I looked in the wrong places for the definition of the word HOPE.  Friedrich Nietzsche tried to define HOPE – He said, “Hope in reality is the worst of all evils, because it prolongs the torments of man.�  But that is not the hope my friend held when he had that permanently placed on his side. HOPE is the opposite of despair.  HOPE is what makes us strong.  It is what we fight with.  Jeremiah Chapter 29, I believe, perfectly exemplifies Justin’s idea of hope, his family and especially his three boys.  “For I know the plans I have for you,� says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.� I wrote a letter to Justin the night I learned of his passing that I would like to share.  “I will miss you profoundly.  You probably never realized the influence you had on me.  You were an amazing father, husband, hero and friend.  It will take so much effort to fill the void you have left.   I will still sit on my back porch and pretend you are with me, drinking a beer and laughing at how incredible our six boys are.   We will both watch how incredible they are and how they do, but it will be way too long until we get to share the stories. I will miss you more than you could have ever known. Your friend, Joe As I wrote to Justin on that horrible night, I will miss him terribly.  But I know that there has always been a plan for him, a plan for good and not disaster, and his future and his hope is with his wife and his three boys. And one day we will all get to sit around and share the many years worth of stories.  I will always look forward to that.

Joe Pickard

I am so sad to hear of Justins passing. I have very fond memories of Justin as a youngster. I know this is an unimaginable loss to the family. I know his memory will live with me, eventually the grief will pass for his family, and you will remember the good times he provided you.

Joe Gaddy

Ryan & Family, We are so incredibly sorry for your loss. You are in our constant thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if we can do anything to help. Chris, Natalie, Jack & Dean

The Bishop Family

Our t thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. We were honored to have met this family and play baseball together with the Tide. We are so sorry for the loss and will keep the family in our prayers. If there' is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to ask. Kari, Rey, Justus, Markus

Mirabal Family

Ryan, I was very saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your boys.

Alfred Gartzke

Elaine and family, I was very sorry to hear of Justin's death and have been thinking of your family and his family since then. I will not be able to attend the services but will hold you close in prayer. Please keep those happy memories fresh as the days and months go forward. We must not question at this time but be strong in our faith. I wish you and all the boys my very best. Tell them hello.

Patti Pitcock

Ryan, words can't express the sorrow you're going through and will go through. At the same time,words can't express my heart felt sympathy for you.. Barbara Jones

Barbara Jones

May you stay strong in this difficult time. We will be praying for you all. Love, Jay & Alicia Harrigill

The Harrigill Family

Ryan, Ashton, Owen and Greyson, The sadness you must feel makes my heart ache for each of you and your entire family. I will be thinking of you and praying for you now and throughout the year as you grieve the passing of your dad and husband. Love to you all. Ms. Helen Beth

Ms. Helen Beth

We are very saddened at the passing of Justin. Please know that the entire Marquette Family is praying for all of you and that you are close to our hearts during this very difficult time. Please know we are available to help in any way. Marquette faculty, staff, and administration

Pete Theban

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