Joyce Murphy
Obituary
Marilyn Joyce (McWilliams) Murphy was born December 24, 1946 in Dallas, Texas to James Carl and Dorothy Ruth (Walker) McWilliams. She passed from her earthly life to her heavenly home surrounded by her loved ones on December 28, 2018 in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 72. Joyce grew up in Irving, Texas. She married Paul Murphy in 1965, and they shared almost fifty-four years of marriage together. They raised three wonderful, Christ-seeking children who, with their spouses, gave Joyce ten loving grandchildren.
Joyce was beautiful. Her beauty was not from mere appearance, but her selfless, tireless care for others transcended physical beauty and endeared her to everyone. Each of her friends and family members experienced her personal, tender comfort through her diligence and radiant smile. She loved the forgotten people and faithfully attended many elderly loved ones. Joyce volunteered with various hospitals and children’s services throughout her life. Joyce was a wonderful “Gigi” to her ten grandchildren for twenty-six years. With her beautiful singing and her lovely harmonies, she blessed her church, her friends, and her family for decades.
Joyce is survived by her husband, Paul Murphy; children: Jan Boomer, Pam Ross, and Jon Murphy and their respective spouses: Marsh Boomer, Robby Ross, and Lorrie Murphy; her ten grandchildren: Taylor Boomer, Susanna Boomer, Tori Ross, Davis Ross, Lydia Ross, Jack Murphy, Emilie Tindle, Julia Tindle, Andrew Murphy, and Maegan Murphy; her sister Liz Bowers; her brother Carl McWilliams; and countless extended family members and dear friends. Joyce joins her mother Dorothy, father James, and beloved older brother Kenny in heaven with her Jesus.
The family will receive friends 3-5:00 p.m. Tuesday at Ninde Brookside Funeral Home. A memorial service will be held 2:00 p.m. Wednesday at First United Methodist Church. Friends may contribute in Joyce’s memory to First United Methodist Church, 1115 S Boulder Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119.
Proverbs 31:31 “Give her the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates.”
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Tributes & Memories
Paul, although I never knew your wife I extend my condolences as well as those of my wife, Noel. I fondly remember your mother and dad along with your sister, Nancy. The last time I saw you was in 1964 and it appears you have had a great life. I know you miss Joyce and my thoughts are with you even with this belated message.
John. G. Hall
I am deeply sorry for the loss of Mrs. Murphy. I think in a time of loss we have to celebrate the person she was and express our joy of having known her. I have been friends with Jan and Pam since Jr. High and High School and I will always remember Joyce's sense of humor and being the "fun mom." I have wonderful memories of hanging out at their home in the early 80's and always having fun, joking around and Joyce was right there with us having a great time. She will be missed by everyone she knew and everyone who got to know such a wonderful woman and friend. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Susan Collum Kaplan
Joyce was so precious to us and her loss is deeply felt. She will be very much missed, but we take comfort that she is rejoicing with her heavenly family. As we pray for the family, she will always be in our hearts. Wayne, Wanda, Bob and DJ
DJ Mcwilliams
She truly was beautiful inside and out. So glad I was able to visit with her at Aunt Margaret's service. May the Lord give the Grace and Peace Joyce's family needs during this time.
Dale Walker
Prayers for the family. She was a sweet lady and caring friend. We went to beauty school together and stayed in contact for many years.
Helen Shirley
Joyce was such a welcoming and happy soul! She drew me under her wing and invited me/welcomed me into her home without hesitation. Paul, I am so sorry that you have lost your precious bride, but I know her spirit lives on. She was one of a kind and her presence will be greatly missed. Much love, Emily Trout
Emily Trout
Lit a candle in memory of Joyce Murphy
Jennifer Adelman Johnson
My sincere condolences on Joyce’s passing. I have such incredible memories of her incredible life and incredible spirit. She was so loving and caring and compassionate to all who knew her. I hope that the wonderful memories will bring you a sense of comfort and peace during this incredibly difficult time. I wish I could be there for the services, but please know I will be with you in spirit and I will hold all of you in prayer. Sending our sincere condolences on your loss.
Jennifer Adelman Johnson