James (Fatty) Elbert McClendon II, passed away on Thursday, July 9, 2015 in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 61. He was born on June 10, 1954 to James Elbert and JoAnne Colby McClendon in Norman Oklahoma who preceded him in death. He is survived by his wife of 34 years Deborah Logan McClendon; his daughter, Marcie Anne McClendon Agent, her husband Will Agent and one grandchild, Lawrence James (L.J.) Agent of Norman, Oklahoma. He is also survived by his sister, Suzanne McClendon Symcox and her husband Lee of Oklahoma City and his brother, Michael B. McClendon and his wife Sondra of Tulsa. Jim had many nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews that he adored and who loved him in return. He was an incredibly dedicated husband, brother, brother-in-law, uncle and friend who always had time to talk or help with any need.
Jim attended Patrick Henry Elementary School, Tulsa Edison High School and later graduated from the University of Oklahoma. In high school, he played varsity baseball, earning the nickname “Fat Daddy” (later shortened to “Fatty” in college), and was a member of the state championship team of 1971. While attending OU, he became a member of the Sigma Chi fraternity. Jim was a Life Loyal Sigma Chi, enjoyed the friendship and deep bonds with his Sigma Chi brothers as well as the earlier relationships he had with his high school classmates and baseball teammates. He always wore his Sigma Chi ring and was very proud that his father, brother, father-in-law and two nephews were also his Sigma Chi brothers. A dedicated Sooner, Jim enjoyed OU athletics and was always eager to talk about the latest game (any sport).
Fifteen years ago, Jim became a founding partner of Global Flow Products, dedicating countless hours to the success of Global Flow, and its subsidiaries.
Jim’s personality was bigger than life and he never met a stranger. He had a gift of connecting with people and was a joy to be around. He was a loyal and giving friend to everyone and he had countless friends who loved and supported him during the 5 months he was hospitalized, courageously battling pancreatitis.
A memorial service is planned for 4 PM Thursday, July 16that Christ United Methodist Church located at 36th and Harvard, Tulsa, Oklahoma. In lieu of flowers, donations are suggested to benefit the Beta Kappa Chapter of Sigma Chi at the University of Oklahoma in memory of James (Fatty) McClendon. Donations may be sent to First Fidelity Bank, 30 West 21st Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114.
I am so sad and sorry to read of Jim's passing. I had no idea he was battling cancer. I'm not sure when Mike and Jim met, but I know they always thought a lot of each other. Mike looked forward to seeing Jim almost every time we went to the club with the kids. He always brought a smile to all of our faces. Debbie, please know I will think of you and keep you in my prayers. I know this road you are traveling all too well and I know what you have been through as a care giver. Take care of yourself and let others help you.
I'm so sorry.
Linda
Linda White
We are so sorry for your loss, I met Jim through my work at Hambrick-Ferguson, Inc. about 10 years ago. Everyone including myself enjoyed interacting with Jim because he had such a wonderful way of putting you at ease when it came to business dealings.
Jim's passing is a great loss to us all; our thoughts and prayers are with his family and co-workers during this most difficult time.
Darin Wolff
Darin Wolff
To the family,
It is hard to imagine Jim really gone. Even with his struggles of the last five months I could feel his light burning strong. I could feel the love of all of us praying and holding strength for him. I am sad and join you in spirit with condolences for your entire clan.
I knew Jim in junior high and we shared friends and classes together. I was a cheerleader to watching him enjoy sports and make many points for his teammates.
It was a pleasure to see he and his wife at the 40th and then at our 60th birthday party.
I wish you all well and healing in remembrance of beautiful memories of his warmth and love. We will miss him. Love to you Jim, I hope you can hear me.
Be well,
Vicki Mizel
Vicki Mizel
Debbie, our whole family loved Jim and we will miss him dearly. you all are in our hearts and prayers
Belinda Posey