Jacqueline Anderson

Jacqueline Anderson

Obituary

Jacqueline Tate Anderson was born December 29, 1934 in Edna, Oklahoma as the 10th of 12 children to Tena and Ed Tate. Mother, Father, sisters Glenola, Eulatsine, Earnastine, and brothers Thurman, MJ, Edmund, Basil, Toussaint, and Coporal preceded her in death.

Kitty, as she was affectionately known, was a 1954 graduate of Beggs High School. She then attended Langston University for two years. Kitty was raised on a 200 acre farm, 3 ½ miles north of Beggs, Oklahoma. She was a member of the 4-H Club for 9 years, where she earned top honors in Home improvement, Dairy Preparation, Canning, Clothing, Food Preparation, Gardening, and Meat Judging.

Kitty earned many awards:

*1950 she won the C.R. Anthony Gold Medal for the “Best Bedroom Improvement Project” in Okmulgee County.

* 1950 1st place and $500 in the Grand Champion Steer competition

* 1953 1st place Meat Preparation Competition.

* 1954 was her last year in 4-H club when won 3 Grand Champion Hefar Calfs Awards and number one status in the state of Oklahoma.

Kitty said, “When we all grew up mother would can 900 quarts of food. We helped dad kill 4 hogs, 2 calves, 2 sheep, 2 goats, chickens, and ducks. This was enough food to feed 13 children and 2 adults during fall and winter months. We grew and sold peaches, watermelons, pears, blackberries, and chickens to Kelly Grocery Store. We made syrup for our neighbors and sold peanuts and hay.”

“My parents taught me how to do everything you needed to do to operate a farm. We ground corn, picked cotton, sold cream to the store in town. I had to milk 12 cows and separate the milk before I went to school everday. My parents were always caring and sharing with our neighbors.”

Kitty joined church at an early age at Tuskegee Baptist Church pastored by Rev. Greenlow. The family rode to church every Sunday in a flatbed wagon. While living in Tulsa she was a long time member of Antioch Baptist Church. In later years she moved her membership to Morning Star Baptist Church.

In 1955 She Married George Wayne Anderson. To this union were born 4 children, Darnell, Darlene, Lydell Lamar, and Victoria(Vicki). After moving to Tulsa Kitty and George started Handy Andy Janitorial Services in 1965. As the business began to flourish kitty stayed home to take care of the home front while George worked the business.

After a long 25 year marriage and divorce Kitty re-entered the workforce as a foster parent for Parents Anonymous. Kitty was also the caregiver for her mom and brother Tousssaint until they passed away.

Feeling the need to exercise her culinary skills Kitty worked as a dietician at Southern Hills Nursing Home. She moved to Rest Haven nursing home for better pay and job security. In 1995 she earned a reward which read, “For Superior Achievement and Excellence of Performance in Dietary Services. After many years of service Kitty retired.

We must also add, Kitty was a long time member of the Eastern Stars and Daughters of Isis. She Served as Grand Worthy Matron 1978-1980.

Our family has enjoyed many delicious meals prepared by Ms. Kitty. With felling health, she moved to Texas to be closer to her children. She enjoyed spending time at the Desoto Community Senior Center where she was a member of The Golden Voices Senior Choir. She eventually needed nursing home care and was transferred from the hospital to Park Manor Nursing home in Desoto, Texas. She earned her wings on Monday June 21st.

She leaves to mourn 4 children Darnell Anderson, Darlene Taylor, Lydell Lamar Anderson(and wife Hattie), and Victoria Anderson, brother James “Flukie” Tate, grandchildren Demtrius Woodard, Iris Esprit, Darnell Jr., Denzel and a host of great grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

Her Celebration of Life service will be held 1:00 p.m. Friday, July 3 at the Ninde Brookside Chapel.

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Tributes & Memories

I first met Ms. Jackie while singing with the Golden Voices Choir in Desoto Texas at the Senior Center...she was one of the most loving spirited person I'd had the pleasure of meeting. She loved to hear me sing.. She later left us and moved back to her hometown in Oklahoma but later I learned she was in rehab at the nursing home where I visited the residents there regularly...she became the star pupil there with all the paintings she colored and they posted in therapy there. When I visited her she would tell me stories of her life, family and things that made her happy like our visits, members from the choir. She lived her life and she loved everyone. We'll miss you Ms. Jackie. Your memory will forever be in our hearts.

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Jo Carol

Aunt Kitty, We love and miss you. We really enjoyed sitting and talking with you. God bless your children they are in our Prayers Love, Ronnie Jones and Family

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In tribute to an Uncrowned Woman of Valor: “Miss Kitty, you have received YOUR CROWN!! You taught me so much about living with distinction no matter what life threw my way. I AM GRATEFUL! I now know how to walk a rough road and leave it smooth behind me for the next traveler. I AM GRATIFUL! You encouraged me to hold on to my dreams, even though my hands were tired. I AM GRATEFUL! You taught me how to stand firm on shaky legs and make it look good. I AM GRATEFUL! The most important thing I learned from you is to let go and let GOD fight the battles and remember that I belong to him. FOR THAT, I WILL BE ETERNALLY GRATEFUL. I will see u in the brighter day. Sharing the LOVE you shared with me♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

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Linda Wilson

TO THE FAMILY OF JACQUELINE ANDERSON: Matthew 5:4 - Blessed are they that mourn; for they shall be comforted. I was saddened to hear of Ms Jackie’s passing. I met her several years ago at water aerobics at the Hutcherson YMCA. I enjoyed the many, many conversations we had. We talked about church, family (especially grandkids), cooking and just about everything else. We also had plenty of laughs. I remember her telling me she was moving to Texas to live with her daughter and we were supposed to exchange numbers but she left before we did. I had wanted to keep in touch cause I had been back and forth to Texas helping with my grandkids. I found out that Ms Jackie had returned to Tulsa. She told me she didn’t really like it in Texas. She talked about returning to water aerobics. I ran into her at a funeral a couple of years ago and she gave me her number. I didn’t keep in touch like I should have but did send her a Mother’s Day text. I got a reply back with the number “1” and I started to call her and got busy and didn’t. She will be missed. My condolences to the family and my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May the fond memories you hold dear bring a smile to your face and lighten your heart in the days, weeks, months and years ahead. Much love, Brenda Shaw-Morris

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Brenda Shaw-Morris

To Lamar and Hattie, May God bring you peace and comfort and may you feel His presence daily... you all are in my prayers! Love, Andriette

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Andriette

My deepest condolences to my classmate Lamar, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. She will be greatly missed. Kim Smith - Thierry BTW Class of 1977

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Kim Smith - Thierry

To my cousins, family, and friends, I pray the love of God embraces you during your journey through grief. Aunt Kitty is gone from our sight, but never from our hearts. Tanya Austin-Denver, Colorado

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Tanya Austin

We miss you already Aunt Kitty. Love and prayers to our entire family as we prepare to celebrate your life while here. Rest in Heavenly Peace, for we will meet again. Love always, Phillip, Patricia, TJ, Addison and your friend, Charleszetta.

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DeSoto Jones' Family

We love and miss you mom, you will always be remembered. Rest in peace...until we meet again.

Hattie Anderson

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