
Iris Elaine (Taylor) Hodges Cooper was born November 11, 1920 in Tulsa, OK and passed from this life January 23, 2018 in Arlington, TX at the age of 97.
Elaine lived in Tulsa attending through High School at Central High, then attending the University of Tulsa, majoring in Music. She was an accomplished musician and worked as a Concert Pianist and Accompanist for many soloists. January 30, 1941 she married John H. Hodges, Jr. During World War II she moved to Seattle to be closer to John who was deployed to the Aleutian Islands Pacific Campaign. After the war they lived in Tampa, then Fresno, then moved to New York City for a short time.
In 1947 they moved to Caracas, Venezuela with their daughter Diane, while John worked as the head Cartographer for Atlantic Richfield Oil Company. Brian was born in 1949 while back in Tulsa, then Nelson was born in Caracas in 1954. The family moved back to Tulsa in August 1957 where they remained until 1969 when Elaine and her family moved to St. Louis. While in St. Louis she worked as a Sales Associate at Jaccards Jewelry. In 1974 Elaine and John moved to Beaver Lake near Rogers, Arkansas where they enjoyed their time together. Her husband, John, passed away in February of 1977 and Elaine moved to Tulsa where took care of her mother, until her mother’s passing, and she worked as a Medical Technician/Assistant for a Doctor for several years. She married Paul E. Cooper in 1988 and lived in Tulsa with Paul until his passing in 1994.
In 1998 Elaine moved to Arlington, Texas so her family could help take care of her until her passing. She continued to enjoy and play Piano until her last week.
Iris was preceded in death by her parents, Pleas McKinley Taylor and Jurelia Elizabeth (Keadle) Taylor; her brothers, Jennings Preston Taylor and Vestal Sylvan Taylor (infant), her sister Rowena Aldred Taylor (infant); her husbands John H. Hodges, Jr., and Paul E. Cooper; and her daughter, Diane (Hodges) Bosche. She is survived by her sons and their wives, Brian & Cheri Hodges and Nelson & Sandra Hodges; her grandchildren, John Jackson Hodges, Gayle Elizabeth Orr and Christopher Evan Hodges; and her great grandchildren, Jackson Dean Hodges, Reagan Danielle Hodges and Evan Rafael Hodges.
She will lie in state from 1:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Sunday January 28, 2018 with family receiving friends from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm. A graveside service will be held 1:00 p.m. Monday, January 29, 2018 at Memorial Park Cemetery in Tulsa, OK.
The Meyers are very saddened to hear of Elaine's passing. The Hodges were our neighbors in Tulsa for many memorable years. Her children grew up with us; Nelson and I playing Army with our dad's WWII army gear from one end of the neighborhood to the other. Stacey, Nelson and I were the same age and went to elementary and Edison Jr and Sr High school together. Elaine treated the three of us as family and Stacey often referred to Elaine as her second mom. Elaine and Mom were best friends and played mahjong weekly with their friends. In retirement, she and Paul played, laked, and regularly traveled together with mom and dad until Paul died and Elaine moved to Arlington to live with Nelson. After leaving Tulsa, Dad, Mike, Stacey and I continued to stay in touch, driving to Arlington where we were happy to attend Elaine's 90th Birthday. Dad had turned 90 a week earlier and seeing Nelson and Brian was akin to a small family reunion. Mom and Elaine traded the same birthday card back and forth for thirty five years, and imagine my smile when Elaine mailed me the card one last time for safe keeping and to remind us of all the good times we shared together...Steve.
Mike, Stacey, and Steve Meyer