
Gertrude Eunice “Trudy” (McWilliams) Plowman, a long-time Tulsa resident was born July 16, 1929 in Lake Village, Arkansas to Robert and Gertrude McWilliams. She passed from this life January 26, 2015 at the age of 85.
Her family moved to Tulsa when she was in elementary school. Trudy graduated from Tulsa Central High School and attended Tulsa University for one year where she met her husband-to-be, Howard Lee Plowman. After they married, they moved to Dallas where Howard attended Perkins School of Theology and she graduated from Southern Methodist University. Following graduation,their adventure began as a team in many Methodist parsonages throughout Oklahoma. All who knew Trudy knew of her spunk and energy for life. She was a school teacher for several years, she traveled the world – sometimes with Howard and sometimes on her own as a travel agent. She and Howard were faithful followers of every sport at Tulsa University. They often traveled to watch both football and basketball games of the Golden Hurricane. Trudy loved to read, stopping only to look up terms and words she didn’t know. She started a book group that has been together for almost two decades. Her family and friends have been blessed by her life always – and will continue to be.
The greatest thrill of Trudy’s life was her three children and their families: daughters, Donde Plowman and her husband, Dennis Duchon of Lincoln, NE, Sandy Plowman Kraus and her husband, Phil of New York City, son, Tom Plowman and his wife, Sarah of Austin, TX; grandchildren,Kevin Ashmos, Preston and Spencer Kraus, Katie Thompson and her husband, John, and Zachary Plowman. Trudy leaves behind nephews and nieces and their families, who have been recipients of her love and generosity, as well as Chijioke Onuoha, for whom she has always had high hopes. Trudy was preceded in death by her parents; her brother, Robert D. McWilliams, Jr.; her sister, Vada McWilliams Wasson; and, a grandson, Christopher Reed Ashmos. Her courage and sweet spirit will guide us forever.
A celebration of Trudy’s life will be held 3:00 pm Wednesday, January 28, 2015 at Boston Avenue United Methodist Church in Tulsa. In lieu of flowers, friends may contribute in Trudy’s memory to the Oklahoma Methodist Manor at www.ommtulsa.org or Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry at www.tumm.org.
Howard, so sorry to learn of Trudy's passing. She was a really great person and our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. .May God be with you, bless you and hold you in the hollow fo his hand always.
Marlen & Dick Pinkstaff
To Howard and Family, Only found out about Truday today. She was my favorite of all the minister's wives we have had at Chapel Hill United Mehodiat in Okla. City. She always had a sparkle in her eye and a smile on her face. She always was friendly to everyone she met and genuinely seemed to like us all. The last time I saw her was at Chapel Hill's 50th reunion and she still remembered us. The world will be a sad place without her, but heaven will be blessed. Much love and prayers to Howard and the entire family. Sincerely, Beverly and Jack Cain - members at Chapel Hill for 53 years
Beverly Cain
Our sweet, energetic, spunky mom - Trudy McWilliams Plowman - left this earth in the early hours of Monday, Jan. 26. A stroke on Sunday morning took her life. She has left this earth but she will never leave us. We are emboldened by her courage and inspired by her sweet spirit.
Donde Ashmos Plowman