Darci Lohr

Darci, is someone that i will love forever. I am at a loss and saddened by her departure. I know from my experience the suffering depression can and will continue to eat away our souls. Darci, we have always loved you.

Mom I love you so, so much and I know you only wished for the best for us... you will forever be missed and loved until the day I die ❤️

Your love affected so many, and yet there was nothing we could do to show how much you meant to us- no matter how hard we tried. Suicide is a crippling disease that slowly took its reigns on you and if I had to send a message to the world it is this: love yourself. No matter what you’re going through, how depressed you are, or how little you have, life is a blessing. Reach out to others for support and never let your mind convince you that you’re better off not here or you’re a burden to others because you’re not. Only when you make the decision to end your life do you truly become the burden you once sought to not be.

Darci will never be forgotten. I found out since her untimely death exactly how many people she had a place in their heart. The love and caring shown has been extremely helpful in getting us thru this devastating loss. We would like to thank everyone for their kind words, prayers, and contributions towards Tanner's college fund (details are in her obituary). Her absolute goal in life was to make sure Tanner had what he needed to be successful in his life. She would be so happy to hear what her friends and family have done to make her dream a reality. The shock of the finality is simply too much to put in words. It is so difficult to understand depression and what it does in your mind. However, I know she is no longer in pain and is the loving arms of God. Her peace gives us some peace, but her death will never truly be understood. Help us to treasure the good memories, remember her smile and caring ways, and share your stories, pictures and thoughts here on this website. Let everyone remember the Darci we all loved. We will miss you Dar and will never forget you. There will never be another that could give as much as you gave us in your short life. We love you and you'll never be far from our hearts.

Dear Darci's Family, I am still so shocked from the news of Darci's passing. I hope you all are finding comfort from Gdo. Daric was a friend since Grissom. In junior high we were in a the same carpool going to Pink Barn together. Last year when she signed up on the Tulsa Memorial Charger website I wrote to her but she never responded. I was sad but I just chalked it up to 30 years later thing. I wished I had tried harder. God Bless all of you. Renee Austin Davis

Ron, I know we haven't seen you in a very long time, we are so very sorry for your loss of your sweet beautiful wife! Our deepest sympathy & condolences to you and your family.

I am so sorry to hear of Darci's passing. We were neighbors in Dallas and our boys were born just months apart. We had so much fun together and the boys loved one another. Darci was one of a kind. She was such a dear friend and beautiful person inside and out. Tanner and the entire family is in my prayers. God Bless you all. Tamra Feito

I cherish the memory of your daughter, my dear friend. We worked together, shared laughter, shared our concept of the beauty of nature and the wonders of life. We shared a many story of how our parents so blessed and loved us. She hoped she could be as good a parent as her parents had been to her - She was so proud of Tanner and loved her son very much, please don't let him forget! Please tell him she is still with him just as she has been since the day of his birth.

We were saddened to hear of Darci's passing. What a beautiful person! She had a gentle presence about her that drew others to her. Our thoughts and prayers go out to her family.

Dear Linda, Cap, & Baxter family, I'm so sorry to hear of Darci's death. I have fond memories of her and your family growing up with them in Park Plaza South and going to school together. Please know your family is being thought of and prayed for during this very difficult time. God bless you all, Kerry Lindenberg Jones

You were a gentle, demure, beauty. So sad you are gone. Paula

Wishing Darci's family and friends some peace and love at this difficult time...she will be missed....

I was saddened to hear of Darci's passing, I'm a former classmate of hers. I remember her smile and kindness. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. I know in my heart she's in a much better place and the stars will shine brighter because of her.

I just found out about Darci's passing and I am heartbroken. Darci and I were dear friends in high school and roommates our freshman year at OU. She was one of the kindest, sweetest, most gentle people I've ever met. She had the most beautiful eyes and a radiant smile. I will pray that God will give you great comfort at this time of loss. Take care, Amanda (Lewis) Burke

Dear Linda and Cap, Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your daughter. Sincerely, Betty Booth Donohue Edison Class of '60

I am saddened by to hear of Darci's passing. I have fond memories of her kindness to all and her sweet smile. My prayers are with her family.

My deepest Sympathies to Darci's family. The opportunities I had to work with Darci were always a joy. She was always professional, beautiful, and fun!! Her smile was amazing! She had such a sweet spirit about her. She will be greatly missed. I pray your happy memories of Darci bring you comfort.

To the Baxter & Lohr families-We are so very sorry for your loss of sweet Darci! We were stunned and saddened when we heard the news yesterday. We are praying for your family, especially for Darci's son, Tanner. We have such fond memories of Darci in college--especially in the dorm as my suite mate. John 11:25-26 "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in ME, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives and believes in ME shall never die." May God bless your family!! Much love, MaryBeth & Lance Smith

My Thoughts and Prayers are with you during this difficult time Mary Ryder

Ron and family, I am so sorry for your loss and understand the grief you are feeling. Keep your faith and know that Darci has moved on to a more peaceful place. Time will ease your pain as the happy memories overtake the sad ones. Love to you and your family. Your cousin

In loving memory of our friend and classmate. The stars will shine a little brighter with your smile.

a smile that lit up the room...Jr. High and high school memories fill my mind. I hope you are at peace and prayers for those who you loved who are left behind.

I was deeply saddened to hear about Darci's passing. Darci and I had lunch together almost every day of our senior year at Memorial High School. When I think of Darci I think of her sweet spirit and her beautiful and kind smile. She was a blessing to all who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with all of her family and friends.

I also went to Memorial with Darci. She was always kind, sweet and funny. She sat behind me in Algebra II and we were so confused together! It was nice to see her at the reunion last year and I was glad she was doing great! I'm sorry for her passing, but so glad I had the chance to see her "all grown up." My condolences to her family.

How very hard it is to lose a child. I know. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, sister, mother and wife. I pray for your strength, and ask the Lord to give you great comfort - now, and always.

I am so very saddened by the news of Darci's passing. I have wonderful memories of Darci, especially when we were in elementary school. My sister, Maria, and I would go to Darci's house and play with Darci and her sisters. We always had a great time together! Darci was one of the sweetest girls I ever met! Although I know Darci is in a better place; she will be greatly missed! Praying the Lord's "comfort and peace" to encompass Darci's family. God Bless, Claudia Lugo Sweeney

I was a fellow classmate at Thoreau Jr. High and Memorial High school. Although I don't remember if we had many classes together, I do remember Darci. I remember her as very sweet and kind to all. She had an "adorable smile" as I remember. I'm so sorry for her passing and wonder "how" and "why". God bless all of Darci's family during this very difficult time.

Darci, I am very sorry to see you depart so young. You will be missed.

We will miss your sweet, kind soul!