Belinda Lee Selcer
Obituary
Belinda Lee Selcer passed from this life on October 8, 2019. Belinda was a loving wife, mother and friend to all. Belinda was known for her fun loving personality, her contagious laugh, her sense of humor, and her pursuit to live life to the fullest. She was born on May 19, 1958 in Alameda, CA to Raymond and Ida Wayne. Belinda is survived by her husband, Patrick Selcer and daughters, Kennedi and Riley Selcer of Bixby, OK. She was the oldest of three children and was survived by her sister Karla Wayne of Owattona, MN and a brother, Clay Wayne of Phoenix, AZ.
She grew up in Owattona, MN and graduated from Owatonna High School. She loved to play all sports and especially the game of pool with her friends, which led to her team winning the national 8 ball league championship in Reno NV in 1982. Belinda worked in the family restaurant business for many years before moving to Colorado Springs, CO where she met her husband Pat. They married in June of 1994 and were later blessed with two beautiful daughters Kennedi and Riley. Their life adventure began with moves to Knoxville, TN, Phoenix AZ, Tacoma WA, and finally to Tulsa, OK. Belinda valued the journey by devoting her time to her family during the travels. She was quick to meet friends and induce the family to the new opportunities.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Junior Achievement of Tulsa at www.juniorachievement.org/web/ja-ok/tulsa. Memorial service will be held at 11:00 A.M. Monday, October 14th at the Ninde Brookside Chapel.
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Tributes & Memories
I remember many fun events with Belinda and Pat in Colorado Springs. Belinda was so full of life and made everyone feel at ease--this is a beautiful photo of her, just as I remember her, with a big, ready smile and glow. My heart goes out to you and your family and your vast circle of friends!
Karen Belber
I’m ready to celebrate your life tomorrow!❤️
Jeanette Conger
Belinda always brought a smile to my face when I came to town to visit my sister and brother-in-law. She was a hoot to dance with and her laugh was the absolute best. Thank you Belinda for being a wonderful friend to my sister Zee and for loving life to the fullest. The world is not the same without you in it.
Rebecca Parker
Belinda....I will miss her so much. My dance partner, pool coach, makeup & hair girl, and just one of the best friends I’ve ever had. I love you & will miss you everyday.
Jana Tiger
Rest in peace I knew Belinda in owatonna her laugh ,smile was unforgettable my condolences to her whole family. The world has lost a diamond sweet dreams balinda.
Mike cassen
I am so saddened by this news. Belinda was a very fun loving charismatic person and always had a smile and a laugh that was contagious. Fly high my dear friend. Until we meet again
Julie Davenport
Heaven gained and Angel!
RIP my friend.
Angie Unruh
Belinda was Special to so Many! May All her Memories be Close to your Hearts & Remember her with the Beautiful Smile she Shared with us All. Sending Our Love, Hugs, & Prayers to Pat & girls. Speak of her often & Remember her with a Smile as I know that is What she would want of us All too!! RIP Belinda!
Rita & Dave Braaten
We were so very sorry to hear of Belinda’s passing. When our girls were young, they spent a lot of time together, and Belinda was never anything but kind and loving to both Kelsey and me. Her quick smile, infectious laugh, and generous spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
Pat, Kennedi, and Riley, we are thinking of you, praying for you, and wishing you peace.
❤️ Kathleen and Ed Bedore
Kathleen and Ed Bedore
Belinda was my soccer mom sidekick and great friend. We instantly hit it off the first time we met. We became Thema and Louise during our soccer years. There's way to many stories to share and only memories to tuck away. No jail time though! I will miss my fun, loud, crazy wedged wearing skirt friend!! Man, she had great legs!!! She loved her family and friends deeply. Her girls were her life. She enjoyed and loved life just about as far as she could stretched it. If there was any human on this earth that gave meaning to "Living your best life" it was Belinda Lee Selcer. I'll miss her beautiful fun spirited ways.
Until we meet again~
Jeanette Conger
Some people are just larger than life! That was certainly the case when God made Belinda!! I will always consider myself blessed to of called her one of my very best friends!! I’m beyond grateful for the many years of the best memories anyone could have!!
Sending all my love, thoughts and prayers to Pat, Kennedi, Riley and family. She loved you all so very much!!
Margie Quinlan
We are so sorry for your loss! Praying for the family.
Travis and Talitha Grether
Talitha Grether