Abner Lowell Shoemaker

Abner Lowell Shoemaker

Obituary

Abner Lowell Shoemaker was born June 19, 1937 in Tulia, TX to Abner Lowe & Addie Mae (Downs) Shoemaker and passed from this life on June 3, 2023 in his home surrounded by family at the age of 85.

Born in the small town of Tulia, TX Abner was introduced to all things outdoor; everything from fishing and hunting to chores.  I recall him telling us how his brother-in-law Dayle drove him to a large field and placed him atop a combine to help with harvest.  The engine was started, directions given and the promise made that he would return.  Since he only knew how to keep on cutting the field in circles and not how to stop or change course he just kept cutting.  Lunch time came and the tractor was shut off for a brief meal, fired back up and pointed back to task until his next relief.  That is one way to learn how to drive and how to work.  The family moved to Oklahoma in his teens and his education and introduction to work continued.  Abner stated that his brother Jerry first introduced him to concrete work.  He was sure that was not what he wanted to do but he would go on to eventually own his own concrete company and work the jobs until he retired.  As for his extracurricular activities he proved himself successful in most anything he did.  He excelled in bowling, in particular, with three 300 games and introduction into the Bowling Hall of Fame.  We have all heard him talk about his growing interest in golf and his self rumination, “If I bowl at night and I golf in the daytime, when am I going to work?”  Opting to feed his family he stuck with bowling.  Abner served his local church faithfully as a deacon and staunch supporter.  Faith in his God, devotion to his family, jokester, storyteller, and friend to all Abner is going to be greatly missed.

Abner was preceded in death by his parents, Abner Lowe Shoemaker & Addie Mae (Shoemaker) Hutson; his step-father and mentor, Royce Hutson; his sisters, Deliliah Arterburn and Zula Mae Culwell; and his brothers, Freddie Lowe Shoemaker and Jerry Shoemaker.  He is survived by his wife of 65 years, Betty Christene (Riggs) Shoemaker; his daughter and son-in-law, Cynthia & Tim Johnston; his son and daughter-in-law, Sam & Lisa Shoemaker; his son, Kelly Shoemaker; his son, Wade Shoemaker; 14 grandchildren; 19 great grandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews, and extended family members.

Abner will lie in state from 10:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. Tuesday, June 6, at the Ninde Brookside Funeral Home.  His funeral will be held 10:00 a.m. Wednesday, June 7, at the Woodcrest Free Will Baptist Church, 19250 E. Pine Street, Catoosa.  He will be laid to rest at the Dick Duck Cemetery, Catoosa.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in Abner’s name be made to The Gideons International at https://www.gideons.org/ or to Catoosa Assembly of God Missions, 200 W Elm St, Catoosa, OK 74015.

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Ron and Dian Heidler

Abner and I did a lot of bowling together. He wanted me to help him put on a singles tournament at Tiffany lanes, so I did. As luck would have it, he and I drew each other as opponents on the first round of play. One game lost, and you were out of the tournament. My heart was just not in it, I knew that he certainly could go further in the tournament than I could. I lost. He accused me of not trying. We both ended up in the office doing paper work!

Joyce thompson

Knowing adner.shoe.around 14 yrs. Has left me with such a soft broken heart so sad to loose a great friend that he has become as a brother in law. One of just a few of many great memory's he has left me with. Is when we would sit around with each other and would have me bring my guitar out and have to start singing gospel songs it wouldn't b long we would both b in tears thinking how wonderful our lord and heavens going to b.. what a awesome time we would have in the presents of God and his holy spirit would show out. And we would join right in.lifting up that wonderful name of jesus. So many times we would share just how wonderful heaven is going to b. We will never have to wonder where abe.is today. I'm miss u already Abe ol buddy my heart is saddened.to loose u. But hang in there I'll b there with u and you can show me around. That awesome place God's prepared for us all. Till till then r.i.p. we're all heart broken u had to leave. At the same time we no your over in that glory land just waiting for the rest of us to b there with .we all one by one will b there before u and we no it. In our new body's. With no hurts or pains. Love u buddy now go have a great time with our lord and get some rest b there before u no it.leave the light on. Lol u are missed by so many.all is well here Blessing to u

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Harrold Cathey

I remember as a child going to there house and playing while my mama got her hair done Abner and my daddy Leon Jones were friends went to school with his children he was such a sweet man prayers for Betty and family Much love Leona Jones Testerman

Leona Jones ,Testerman

I am so sorry for your loss, and my thoughts are with you and your family. Our family prays that God grants you comfort in your time of sorrow and strength in the future. May the Lord bless you with His peace and love during this time of sorrow.

Rita Hyles

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